cosmiqrust Member

yep, and the fact that women perpetuate it themselves is the worst. maybe female self-esteem wouldn't be collectively in the toilet if everyone just decided to stop picking each other apart for a change.

i don't have the stomach for girl hate, it's some that should have been left in the high school locker room. but there's bound to be some resentment when the thin body has been shoved in someone's face their whole life as the Ideal Form.

everyone's judging everyone while panicking about whether someone else is judging them back. don't worry about it. i got stuck floundering under a 50lb barbell in my first week, never stopped me from going back. fitness isn't a straight line, it's a child's scribble.

the only way i can even consider going into a night club is through the magic of alcohol. goodnight crippling social anxiety. if you can manage you're just made of much stronger stuff than me. :drinker:

people who get angry at others for wearing make-up at the gym. what's the matter, too beautiful?

forever 21 has a lot of cute basics for cheap. i don't know your size or their highest size range, but it might be an option later on at least.

try being an only child in a family that lost their firstborn. unpleasant to say the least. a little disturbing to think of how many photos and videos i was bombarded with from an early age, where my mom would plop my squirmy butt in front of the tv to say hi to my sister in her baby videos. we're both a bit neurotic to…

T O N I N G. or anything about how to build muscle without getting "bulky." seriously, take your 3lb weights and go home if you honestly still believe that's what happens when you lift.

absolutely. i've almost exclusively dated overweight girls tbh. the only place i draw the line is people with feeder/feeding fetishes. *skype vomit emoji*

is it creepy to say i love you so soon?

they'd probably start a group effort to fatten me up if they saw me tracking my food. i don't think they care though, as long as my work gets done.

sit-ups. i'm a freak who loves suicides and burpees. :wink:

i think i used to make this recipe a while back. try subbing out a banana for the egg -- it ups the calories to 45 each, but if it's the same recipe it's d e l i c i o u s. *_*

another thing you can do to prevent sexual assault is not be one of those types who wrings their hands and goes "well, we'll never stop ALL people from raping people so what's the point?" the point is to minimize it as much as possible, by making rape as shameful and life-ruining for the rapist as murder for the murderer,…

i can be aware (from experience) that the stereotypes are false. it's not always a crazy homeless man in a back alley or barhopping scum with whiskey on his breath. it can be your best friend, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, an acquaintance that everyone swears up and down is a lovely person. it can happen anywhere, at…

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baked sweet potato and chai tea :smokin:

more like every two years for added fun and neurosis. :sick:

exactly. when i was 19 i was exactly the same way, running an hour a day on top of pilates for 2 hours 6-7 days a week. i was privileged to have the time to obsess over those things instead of my calorie counts. now, 21 with a full time desk job, not so much. counting may be pointless when you have a youthful metabolism…

a blue raspberry nerd slush and that bacon cheeseburger on toast at sonic. Nice nice Nice nice Nice.

voyager - daft punk

21 and never, ever dropping a kid into this earth. does a rat count as a fur baby? he's my favorite fur baby.

basically. in hindsight my post sounds a lot more condescending than i intended. if you enjoy walking and that's it, then by all means, walk your heart out! but there's no reason to keep half-*kitten* doing something you hate.

i L O V E this app, but my life keeps coming up with excuses for me not to finish season one. when i first bought it two years ago, i tore some muscle in my foot that kept me from running for over a month. now i just got serious about restarting it and my phone is dead and refuses to charge. it's a cursed delight, that app.

frustrated bouncer

the wolf gift by anne rice, because i'm actually 12 years old, not 21. it's taken a really cheesy turn and i'm quickly losing interest.

have you tried coursera? they offer lots of free online college level courses, including beginning computer programming. i've taken a few and loved it.

to keep with the theme, living in a town with no bike lanes and hardly any sidewalks. :wink: other things? children. cell phones going off at inappropriate times (i was just at my grandmother's funeral and someone's phone went off at full volume not even five minutes into the service, Nice). being flirted with in any way.…

ready to kiss a qunari.

going to the gym and getting in the pool is the highlight of my day. i feel really sorry for anyone who hates themself enough to just plod through a workout they hate every day without exploring other options that might actually be satisfying and enjoyable.