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I feel your pain because I've been exactly where you are. Previously I have always eaten badly and people get used to that. When I started this journey, my willpower was paper-thin and I can completely understand why you are finding it difficult. It used to be that when I went out, people would pressure me to have a…

I've never eaten in secret but I am obsessed with food and thinking about my next meal. I've just posted in another thread about how I think I will always need to track my food. For me, the key thing was making the decision that I really wanted things to change. Sure I'd 'start over' every Monday but I never did it with…

I found it very necessary. I love food, I am a comfort eater and if I don't log I find that I'm often over calories. I need to be aware of what I'm eating overwise I will overeat. I realised recently that even when I reach my target weight, I'm probably still going to need to track otherwise I am probably going to start…

Thank you :-) I'm naturally quite lazy and love nothing better than curling up with a book...I've got more energy too and have taken up some active hobbies which help keep things going in the right direction..?

Kent, UK here!

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Welcome!

I'm British and I prefer the current House of Cards. Haven't read the novel though

I don't think it is your 'fault'. You can't help who you are :smile: I agree that it's about getting out there, sharing hobbies and seeing what's what. The biggest turn off (for me) is desperation, where you get the feeling that any girl will do. I think it's about getting to know the person and connecting that way.

I had a binge last week and ate 4 chocolate cream eclairs in one sitting....

Well done!!

I'm excited and nervous at the same time!

1. I've recently turned 36. My birthday was on 22nd December but to me age is just a number and I often forget how old I am! 2. I've no children and no plans for any either. I'm very happy to be a crazy cat lady and lavish my time and attention on my 3 cats. 3. I have a voracious appetite for reading. I regularly buy books…

I'm happy to learn together! I was logging regularly and doing okay for about 18 months, then for the last year I have barely logged, weighed etc. I'm sure there are people on here who can offer you different advice but for me, it was a case of trial and error. I logged absolutely everything, even on a bad day so that I…

Just finished 'Enchantress' by James Maxwell....loved it!

Hi both! I've just restarted too after a year off. This is a great idea for a group. I have just over 100lb to lose (207 to be precise) and that is really, really daunting...I'm glad I found this group :smile:

I'm also from UK!

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I've not read through this topic so this may have been said before but....would you want him back if he behaves like this? I strongly believe that everybody deserves somebody in their life who loves them unconditionally. It's not about how you look, looks fade. It's about the person you are inside. I know people may jump…