GypsieFlower94

Very similar, and super helpful. I might go back to my doctor and tell him this is getting really annoying and I need help with it coz I am seriously done wit being bloated constantly. Also I don't always wake up flat. Some days I wake up still blated from dinner, or I am relatively flat but as soon as I drink anything in…

Also what are good probiotics if i cant have yoghurt or yakult?

Oh okay, good point! so what is a good form of fibre if i cant have any gluten or dairy or beans or lentils? And I am trying to stay away from starch? Or what are just some good forms of fibre and does metamucil really work or is it a waste of time?

I drink my minimum 1.8l plus 3-4 teas a day, and usually more water but I make sure its 1.8l minimum. When I drink more than 2.5-3l of water i get a headache, the odd occasions I have drunk3-4l i still dont see any difference in my bloating, and im left with a headache also. I think i have fibre in my diet? I have…

If it's water retension, how do I get rid of it? I know i have some fat around my stomach but it is definitely not enough to make up all the bloating, and once again, i dont think I be able to pull it back to pretty much flat would i?

Also might be worthwhile to add, I think I may have a slow digestive system only becdause I only do my "2's" ever 3-4 days or so.

I drink at least 1.8 liters a day (3 600ml bottles) more on work out days or if i can manage, definitely not pregnant, haven't gained weight as scale doesn't really change and when i tighten my abs, i see how much it pulls my belly in. like i go from 5 months pregnant to flat just by tightening my stomach muscles, so I…

Yeah that actually makes a lot of sense. I Understand. Yeah I know someone like that, though she is lucky and looks great either way haha

Yeah of course, but in that situation, the hair, it's a bit different. You would have to agree every person on mfp is here to become more healthy, and lose the extra weight they may have, either for health or to like the way they look. They obviously don't like their size or they would not be trying to reduce it, right? So…

I understand where you are coming from. The thing is, I didn't say it has nothing to do with it, just that it isn't the main pivotal factor in my reasoning, which everyone seems to assume is what I am saying. Even when I blatantly state that is not the main factor, the fact I mentioned it at all is apparently bad to do. I…

pretty much. Personally I found myself more attractive all round than the two women. Not all large women, just the two. I know other larger women who I envy because of how great and attractive they are. Same goes for skinny. The moment you say you find yourself more attractive than someone else, you're the devil and a fat…

Oh of course! that is EXACTLY what I have been saying this entire post. I am better than everyone? yeah no. I have 2 serious mental conditions - depression and acute anxiety. I don't think I am better than most people. But I know for sure I am better than the two women that the cheating happened with. And I may not be…

I never said I am better, just that I would not class that as attractive. I was stating a situation where the other woman was not large, but once again, way to make everything negative. I have never stated or implied I am better, or think I am better, than anyone based on size or attractiveness or whatever as a whole. I…

I never said I am better, just that I would not class that as attractive. I was stating a situation where the other woman was not large, but once again, way to make everything negative. I think no matter what is said you will take it and make it seem the worst it possibly can. Yes Anorexia is a disorder. Where someone…

No, I don't hate them either, I never said I did. In fact, the whole time I have never blamed them for what happened. I rank higher than them by not only my own opinion, but that of people who by all means should be on my ex's "side" I guess, like their friends or families. Also, I don't think they are less attractive…

Very true man. Thanks for all your input by the way, it is very helpful :)

I get defensive if someone tells me I am/ believe something I am not. I do think these women were less attractive than me. As I have stated at least a few times, they were both quite mean, One was very mean to almost everyone including the partner that cheated on me with her, and neither took care of themselves in the…

I said ranked higher, not that I am the best. If I am a 5, they would have been a 4 at least. Even if I8 thought I was a god damn 10, what is wrong with people being happy with themselves ad thinking they look good. If you find yourself more attractive than someone else, doesn't mean you think yourself attractive, you just…

Can I just say, for anyone else wanting to paint me as a fat person hater, my ex, the one that cheated on me, was "fat". My best friend, female, is fat, and she Is the most gorgeous person inside and out, funnily enough she Is blonde now, too. My best friend who moved states who is male, also a little chubby. We were very…

Actually, if you read my posts and don't take everything out of context, you will find I never implied or said any of those things. ...If they were completely different circumstances and types of people or even smaller and prettier I would be able to make sense of... I meant if the two women were different. ...someone…

People get cheated on regardless sometimes. I know plenty of people, men and women including me, who were the submissive person, did everything the partner wanted to, tried to please them however and whenever, and still had their own life and was still independent. The only thing missing was they weren't a challenge…

I get what you mean. The size only mattered because it was so different to my own. If they were both extremely skinny, I would be in the same predicament. It just happened they were larger, and the exact opposites of me in every way, whereas previous to cheating my partners had told me I was their "type" and what they…

That isn't what I was saying at all. I don't have a problem with larger blondes, blondes, or larger people. I know heaps of pretty large people and completely disgusting looking skinny people. I never said skinny is prettier, I purely said in both these circumstances, I know that I would have been ranked higher than the…

PS. Sorry for making this a relationship type topic, I honestly didn't mean for it to, though my motivation behind the question was for this reason.

Thanks for the input :) I guess it did impact my self esteem once the exact same thing happened twice with similar women. If they were completely different circumstances and types of people or even smaller and prettier I would be able to make sense of it a bit more I think. I think I did go off on a tangent, but the…

I definitely don't mak whim pay for it, i keep it to myself. He knows what they did, but I haven't ever told him or accused him of wanting to stray, i just worry it may happen. I was dating a 23 year old the first time, and then a 21 year old. So yeah, pretty much boys haha. I did try keep my independence, I would still…

Yeah I also got a little pudgy with my partner due to comfort, though i am trying to slim down since he is a stick (lucky duck) without trying and I wanna kind of match him. i think i am just worried it would happen again with this guys since i love my partner s much and I would never want to drive him to do what the other…

Thank you :) No they are both long gone. And i try not to judge anyone by their looks etc, though I will admit, straight after the incidents, any large blonde reminded me of them. Though i didn't hate the person who wasn't one of the two, it was just sad being around them due to the reminder.

Thanks guys, good advice :) I know i shouldn't base my self worth on it, but it's hard not to. And it makes me worry my current fantastic partner may eventually stray too. I feel like I was always "willing" even if i didn't give it up as easily at first, but once we started, which i had with both, I was giving them that…

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