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I can't cut and paste the link on my iPad but I could show you the jeans in my closet lol Old navy jeans lose their dark wash in a few weeks to months. Even American eagle jeans which really don't cost that much more (if any) haven't faded on me whatsoever in a years time. I think I paid $75 for my 'lucky brand' jeans but…

I agree. They hold their color better too and dont fade. I upgraded from old navy to lucky brand jeans and they are night and day.

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I agree as well ... Was a bit confused with the other thread about this. Why would you pretend to be someone else for a few months and then go bam here I am!! He or she would feel blindsided.

Woohoo awesome. I think roadie suggested the casual touch and I totally agree. I think it shows/gives the man the 'go ahead' Keep us posted.

I agree with this 100%

You think 3 months is too soon to be exclusive? How long do you suggest? I went exclusive recently after 1.5 months... Good timing for me as I couldn't Keep up with the multiple dating lol. We (or I anyways) went in with a friends mindset so he's seen alot of undesirable Kim haha and he is still around so I hope we beat 3…

For me, I think it is more how you present yourself than what you are wearing exactly. You can look damn good in jeans and t-shirt if they fit well and are clean, not wrinkly, etc. You don't have to wear jeans and a button up shirt to catch my attention, but I think that looks good when going a smidge more upscale... even…

5'6" and I weight between 162-167 ish... struggling lately I wear a size 8.. sometimes a 6 or 10 depending on brand, but generally 8

how you doin? LOL! You look fantastic, good job!

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Our city is in a state of emergency with floods washing out downtown and neighbours around me. I am safe, thankfully. Friday - went with 3 friends out for dinner/drinks for my girlfriend's birthday. We came back to my house and had some more drinks. Saturday - worked out, now I am getting ready to go cheer on the Chicago…

Wow wtf?!?! That'd be enough for me to unfriend her.

This is the situation. Husband and wife. And the person who knows is ones sibling.

She is hoping he will change... see her differently... I am saying 'stand up for herself' in the sense that she can go to him, tell him she wants a relationship and walk away when (or if) he says no. Unfortunately from most the opinions of most people in this thread, if she maintains the status quo, and just hopes he…

I am not sure, in the case of this thread, that anyone suggests that FWB is manipulative and using of women in the general sense. FWB is mutually agreed upon, etc. Just like you have said. The point of the thread is that she is hoping he will change and see her more than a FWB and be a boyfriend, but he has matter of…

Where I am confused is that she says ' I won't be satisfied until I know forsure' but he said he didn't want a relationship - so there you go! you know forsure!

My honest guess would be that if either girl stands up for themselves and states they want a relationship over FWB then both will have no FWB or relationship status. All the warning signs/red flags are there. The best advise I ever received was 'listen when a man talks' So much literature on 'I am not ready for commitment'…

Minus some of the choosen words (lol kidding Kits) I agree with this bang on! Listen when a man speaks - great advice! If you want more than FWB, then stop sleeping with him!

It's not vain or petty, IMO... it's motivation to get the job done!

I say go for something stylish & classy that you feel comfortable and confident in. No point of wearing something that you are worried about all evening! I tend to wear a dressier top (tank or 'blouse') and a pair of jeans/capris. Just show off a bit of skin, but not too much... gotta leave something to their imagination..…

OHH I didn't realize you didn't live in the same town! How far apart do you live? Have you met in person yet or would this be the first time?

I have nothing to share... but I got to thinking --- if you knew your friend was cheating on their spouse, would you tell the spouse? Someone recently shared quite the story with me, and I was floored they hadn't done anything with the information. They said it wasn't their place (which I guess it isn't) but wow! I mean,…

See that's the problem... it's a cycle... they screw you over, they make it up.. all is peachy... rinse and repeat. Learned this the hard hard way... but at the end of the day I think it depends what their 'excuse' was and such. I am hungover is lame.. my mom is sick in the hospital is ok. You know? The men I gave 2nd…

I don't know your boyfriend/crush... I would see what happens when he returns... After all I have been thru I tend to lean more to actions speak louder than words, because I have been fed every line in the book BUT he is travelling so I can see how it could be spotty. See how it goes once he returns.

What I was trying to get at by posting the article was that if you must sit around and worry about the man's every word, say things like 'I don't get it' or 'oh he is just busy right now', etc. that you are missing the message that he just isn't that into you... that's what I took from the email.. I wasn't caught up on who…

Yeah I would say it was speaking more for the first little while until something more 'regular' is established... but if you run into troubles I think it could re-apply! lol I have learned this the hard way as well. It's not so much that I don't give a *kitten* now, but I have set myself healthy boundaries (for life and…

Who knows?!? lol I am kind of at the point that I will go on the first date, and the man can approach me for the 2nd, 3rd, etc. With Asia, I think we are somewhat past that. I ask him to come hang out, or he asks me to hang out... doesn't seem to be an issue for us. But we have been dating almost 2 months now ... ETA: that…

While I agree 'if it happens, it happens' there is absolutely no point in wasting time with a guy who will never marry, if marry is on your 'wish' list. Same with kids. I WILL NOT have anymore kids, so would it be fair of me to say 'undecided/open' and lead them along? no, so I think with kids and relationship desires one…

Exercise, friends, keep busy. Create your own new life. Remind yourself that you will be ok, that this person wasn't your ideal match but the right one will be out there someday. Everything happens for a reason.