purplehearts87

Can I just say a big thank you to everyone who took the time to reply. I asked for honesty and that's what I got!! I am still a bit in shock to tell the truth. I had no idea I was even fat but to realise just how much extra weight I'm carrying and that it's likely affecting my health...it's a lot to take in but I'm…

So my weight and body fat mean that I'm fat enough for my health to be at risk? I agree health is most important issue. I think I need to hear and accept the truth and get myself out of denial about this. I always valued being fit and healthy and I want that back x

I know what you mean. I think I needed to hear and acknowledge the truth too as I did not have the motivation before as I was convinced I was still slim. I was told I'm carrying 65lbs of pure fat when I had my bf measured....very hard to swallow but I need to know the truth. Its been a wake up call I thought I just had s…

I think you are right. Its definitely hard to swallow that I've allowed myself to get this overweight. I do want to do something about it. Ive had enough of feeling like this - deep down I knew I had gained a lot of weight but I guess I have to face up to the truth and deal with it. Thank you x

OK this is painful but here's how I looked at 19% bf and 123lbs http://i61.tinypic.com/2j678dk.jpg So sad to look at this

I've spent a lot of time avoiding cameras lately so I don't have full body pic. My measurements are 38 bust, 34 waist, 44 hips. Is that really bad? Online calculators are giving me 35-37%....maybe I have to start accepting I am actually too fat :-( I just can't see how I've let myself get to this. Is 35% really bad? What…

Haha!!! I was too busy looking at my belly to notice the boobage...oops!! They were meant to be kisses but I see ya point...