Telton66

To all of those who are against my OP then let me ask you this.Since its obvious that you condone obesity then what are you all doing in this site? I cant speak for everyone but for me I want to feel good and sexy. I was never really overweight but i do work hard to maintain my weight.I also want to live longer and not…

My Daughter is 7 years old and he is not the father .Its from previous relationship

Thank you, I totally agree with you. I don't why other people got offended with my thread. I do agree with you that people change when people they gain allot of weight including their appearance. If someone where to put 100 pounds ,then they will turn into different person and their appearance would change as well.Well my…

Jiao I am sure this lady husband is fat and weighs 400 pounds judging for her answers.I takr care of myself and I expect the same in a partner.I don't see anything wrong to encorage my partner to be healthy.Just to be clear things up, I didn't call him fat to his face.All I did was suggesting Myfitness pal and gym and he…

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Umm I don't why you are getting touchy about this. If I am no longer attracted to someone that they gained weight then I cant help it. I clearly stated in my question that he used to be obese when he was younger and it seems like he is heading that way. I am concerned because I care about this person. where is this anger…

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Well its more of being concerned about their health more than just how they look. I also cant deny if I am no longer attracted to this person if they do get obese

since I sleep with the person and going to marry this person then his weight is my business and my concern

How do you think it would have played out?Would I still receive positive answers if it was the other way around? :\

He just says that its touchy subject for him and he accuses me for calling him fat when I suggest he comes to gym with me. Then he does nothing about it and doesn't make an effort to get back in touch

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I agree withh you.when he lost weight he went back to eat normally and he is always getting food from work since you can eat anything you want for free.I was actually tempted at first to do the same thing but I decided to do ot the healthy way

I don't comment on people weight either way. It was just a thought and I clearly stated on my other post that was not planning to I to do it. I am more interested on hearing other people perspective on the subject. I created this thread soley for discussion and hearing other people thoughts and opinion. It doesn't mean…

Then why do so many people expect others to comment on their weight loss but not weight gain? I see so many post on people getting offended that no one noticed and when will people notice etc. As for myself I am not overly fond of weight loss comments .If I expect people to comment on my weight loss then I shoudn't be…

I am not sure how much but I don't think 5 lbs will be noticeable just like 5 lb weight loss. When I started gaining weight myself I dint notice 5 to 10 lbs because I never weighed myself . My clothes started getting tight when reach 20 lbs. I couldn't fit into my skinny jeans anymore but could still fit into my clothes…

well no one will notice 5 to 10 lbs anyways

and for the people saying he knows...you'd be surprised at how deluded some people can become. [/quote] Even though I a not going to say anything, i do agree with you that its easy to pretend its not happening in early stages especially if its 5 to 10 lbs

Well I wasn't planning to tell him as I try not to offend people if I can help it ,which is the reason why I posted this thread. Just wanted to hear other people perspective about this

I guess everyone is right but when he lost weight, I didn't say anything but then he came to me and asked me if I noticed that he had lost weight. He is the one who brought it up.Then I asked him how he did it and he said he only ate vegetables for a month straight.I told him about how i am losing weight slowly with…