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I was raised the same as the OP and thought this would never be an issue for me but now it's something I do think about regularly... In a perfect world, I'd prefer to find someone and be in a long term relationship. But in reality, that is not happening and I'm only human. I'm definitely not the one night stand type of…

How long has this guy been on the dating scene? He might just mean that he's tired of the games that people play in the dating world (although both genders do that equally imo). edit for spelling

hey, a workout is a workout is a workout... :laugh:

If nothing else I at least try to walk a lot when I'm away. It's better than nothing!

A. Can I add you to see those pics too? :bigsmile: B. Damn I'd like to lick those abs! :noway: Oops, forgot to use my inner voice on that one. :embarassed:

Ain't that the truth! But damn, a girl asks for pics and all she gets is excuses, excuses... lol :tongue:

this might be the quote of the day. :laugh:

How would you know it's BS unless you know them as a couple? It may not be a reason you like, but it is a valid one in terms of a serious relationship. Besides, if I recall, didn't she try to stay with him and get him into "rehab" for a while after the scandal broke? Maybe she really did - and still does- want it to work.…

Run and I will happily accept PMs. :wink:

That first step is always the hardest! Congrats on getting out of your comfort zone.

Wow, you sound awfully bitter. Perhaps you were hoping for a chance with Tiger and his fortune?

You can do it!

Actually, no. Being an independent woman and being rude are very different things. I tend to agree that so much of the northern / southern thing is cultural. I do what I do because it works for me and the area in which I live... That isn't to say one way is right or wrong. There is a lot to be learned from each model.

awesome, good luck!

we need the pics as proof or it didn't happen :tongue:

While I can't relate to your exact story, there are pieces of it that feel familiar to me. It really is the kind of thing where you just need to break off contact and move on with your life (easier said than done I know!). Whatever her reasons for her actions, you cannot help someone who doesn't want your help. It will get…

single and looking :wink:

Not sure but i assume this response is aimed at me because i said i dont like when people "expect" to be treated. But that really goes for both genders & is not a feminist statement at all. I just think expexting anything of anyone on the first few dates is a goid way to lead to disappointment.

Yup, I agree with Kits here. Adding the explanation makes it more of a lifestyle issue than simply who pays for what. It seems like a deeper issue all together.

Moe, I tend to agree with you that it's a total package kind of thing. Obviously one of the elements is physical attraction in a relationship situation. I guess I say that because I also think it's important to have chemistry with friends too... I mean, why are you friends with someone if there's any kind of awkwardness?

You were seriously upset about this? I guess that's the type of thing I wouldn't think twice about if someone I was serious about had to visit me.

I always offer to pay for my share or more, regardless of who asks who out. If a guy says no, then I will simply thank him. Personally, I don't like when women expect to be treated because of their gender, it gives all of us a bad rap. But at the same time, I won't bruise a guy's ego either if he really wants to pay.

Anna, I see what you did there :huh::laugh:

they aren't here either... :(

Sorry you feel blindsided. That's the worst, especially when you already feel as though you're putting in so much effort. On another note, can I just say that I might be swooning a bit by how hard you're trying in this situation. It would be nice to see more guys put in the effort you seem to be once in a while.…

@Roadie, Not attempting to intrude here, but if part of it really is the affection issue, then you may want to check out the book 5 Love Languages. It's pretty eye opening about how simple things can change your relationship and how you interact with one another. http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

My juicer arrived yesterday and I made a great mixture of carrots, orange, grapefruit and kale and brussels sprouts. Basically everything I had in the fridge, lol. I did some taste testing last night, but had half a glass for breakfast this morning. I'm really full and barely want to drink any coffee (which is sooooo…

Please show us your new pics first :wink:

I always thought #1 could be a good idea but I don't have enough single friends anymore, so it probably wouldn't work. The other ideas are at least interesting.

Hmmm, interesting idea.