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  • I didn't have a "courtship" phase before my current relationship... we were FWBs first, but that's hardly 'courting'. I think you're thinking about relationships in a more dated fashion :tongue: In regards to your second statement, I think that the person who loves the "least" does have an impact, but they don't…
  • I will agree that TDEE is not a "natural" or genetic thing, and I wasn't trying to say that in the post. I do work out daily, because my job requires a lot of lifting and walking around, and I have been going swimming almost daily. I just wanted to make a point that women don't have to restrict their calories AND spend…
  • Haha, I take no offense, I am definitely a big girl still. However, I believe that there are more girls closer to my age (and weight) on this site than the 50 year old 130 lb-ers. This post was trying to reach out to those bigger women who are starving themselves on 1200 cals (or less!) when they really shouldn't be.
  • I eat all sorts of things, but I try to get as close to my protein goal as possible. If I do that, all the other macronutrients seem to fall into place. :)
  • I definitely believe that not all calories are created equal, in the sense that what you're gaining from them nutritionally varies a ton! However, right now I am still pretty lax with my dietary restrictions. If I want something, and I have the calories for it, I will eat it. My macronutrient goals are: 55% carbs, 20%…
  • Comparing someone's intelligence to how they treat their body is not only irrelevant, but it's insulting to imply that the pinnacle of human beauty should revolve around being as thin as possible no matter what the cost to your health. But then again I'm not really surprised to see such a comment from you.
  • I'm sorry, but I believe there are much better "fantasies" of female beauty to be created than ones using half-starved girls with eating disorders and editing the crap out of the pictures. That's essentially saying that pop music is a "fantasy" with all the auto-tuning and whatnot. And yes, they both sell, but not to the…
  • I started doing my own laundry when I was about 12, and had to clean the kitchen / do the dishes daily, immediately after getting home from school. I also had to walk the dog and clean out the cat litter pans occasionally (my dad and brother did this also). Other things, such as cleaning the bathroom and watering plants,…
  • ib4 the imminent locking and a possible strike for OP, depending on how many (if any) report this. This is just a thread you shouldn't have started, because the "discussion" you were looking for isn't going to happen on a website filled with people who are extremely insecure about their bodies! No matter WHAT you look…
  • ^This, my boyfriend will just use tissues until I put the damn thing on myself! :tongue:
  • My boyfriend does; he managed to spill soda all over himself TWICE while we were in the car last week. :laugh:
  • I'd rather be called fun-sized than "BBW", that's for damn sure :tongue: Still though, I'd say you're tall enough to be average; I wouldn't call anyone fun-sized unless they were 5'2 or shorter lol.
    in Fun sized Comment by Ramberta June 2013
  • It's creepy that you think that her thinking it was creepy was creepy! (Are we getting confused yet?)
  • It's soooooo true. Boobs-- and the ability to carry on a real conversation-- are the top 2 reasons I think girls are sexy!!
  • I wish mine would stop shrinking as I lose weight :'( I've already lost a cup size!
  • Wow, what a horrible thing to say. Besides, since when is running for an hour and doing a workout video "excessively exercising"? To the OP: Unless you're talking about lifting heavy, a "rest day" is not needed if you're comfortable in your routine. Daily cardio is far from a bad thing, so long as you're not going crazy…
  • Just seeing the title of this thread, I was worried that it was some sort of parody making fun of eating disorders. Very glad to see it is not! Lol. Anyway, I would definitely be Lethargy Girl! Or, if I was a villain, the Binge Menace.
  • Thanks for the replies, keep them coming :smile:
  • I am gonna make these right now, with chocolate powder!! So pumped, I hope they turn out as delicious as yours look!
  • At the rate I'm going that sounds perfectly reasonable, and it'd put me very, very close to ONEDERLAND! :D
  • Over the river and through the woods, to grandmother's house! Duh.
  • It depends on what I'm looking to get out of that 'date'. I've met up with guys with the intent of it being a 'casual' affair rather than a "let's be bf and gf" type of date... if a guy comes onto me but isn't creepy about it, and he's either really suave or buying me something... I'll probably go along with it. :tongue:…
  • I weigh myself constantly, but only because I obsess about how too much sodium affects me and find it kind of fascinating how much water weight I can lose or gain in a single day. I'm weird like that. But I remind myself that my body is never stable. However, I consider it a constant reminder-- either the number is low and…
  • If you're lifting and still not seeing results, you probably need to eat more. Carbs and protein especially. If you want the definition you need to feed those muscles. Your diary is private so I can't see what your macros are set at, but for me, on a 2k cal daily goal I have the goal of 205g carbs and 128g protein-- that's…
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