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Thank you!! :bigsmile:

I'm 35 with no kids (by choice). I don't have baby fever either. My best friend had baby fever in her early 20s and wanted kids the second she got married. Everyone is different and your focus is just elsewhere now. My attitude is if it's meant to be it will be. When I'm settled and have a husband, "if" I get pregnant,…

Thank you!!! :bigsmile:

Personally I can't stand it when ALL the pics are self taken with a cell phone. Either in the bathroom mirror, in the car, lying down in bed. I mean really? Do you interact with people? I mean these days with facebook and people posting/tagging pics, you'd think they could have at least one photo in a social setting. Group…

Absolutely HILARIOUS!!! Speaking of, my cousin and I were crying from laughter at this message I got on OKC last week (must share so you guys can laugh too) - :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: I must commend you on your choice of profile pics; they really advertise your biological prowess. Your voluptuous figure, along with your…

Makes no sense, I agree. Same with the "meet me" feature on POF. You want to meet me from liking my pics (I understand it's based on pics, didn't really take time to read profile) so hey, I think you're cute too & send a message. No answer. WHY?!? Pics are the same from before?? I don't get it. Probably never will. LOL…

Thank you! :D

Maybe it's just me. But, I'd feel pretty self conscious only wearing socks. I'm always cold since I lost weight however, if I'm cold during sex (FYI never happened before, usually pretty hot & steamy) then there's more of an issue than my "cold feet". If any body part was cold, hands, feet, whatever, it could be a…

This is the kind of stuff that used to infuriate me until I developed my "whatever" attitude. When they DO invest a lot of time, talking, texting etc, then they just don't show up or call or whatever, ugh that makes me soooooooo mad. Like WHY? Why spend the time chatting, making plans, etc to just not follow through. I…

I agree it depends on the situation and the person but also, it takes a few seconds to send a text & say "hey XYZ xame up, I'll be busy next weekend with so & so" or whatever. At least I know that is what I'd do if I was interested in someone so they'd know I am interested & not just blowing them off. Life happens, people…

Thanks everyone, it felt GREAT for sure :bigsmile:

Exactly ... Same with responses from guys. Either no pics or misleading pics. Or WAY too old. Or just inappropriate sexual comments to start a conversation. Or the dumb introductory emails just saying "hi". Like wow, you put thought into that one ...

I had two this week: 1) "So when am I going to get you naked" NEVER met him, NEVER talked to him. ?!? WTF Sure, you asked so nicely, there ya go! I'm waiting for you in the buff, cum on over .... (*kitten*) :indifferent: 2) "You have fantastic cans" LOL!!!

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Thanks so much! I really appreciate it :drinker: :flowerforyou: Now, of to the gym, there is a body combat class with my name on it! Have a great Saturday everyone :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

I'm assuming you're talking to me, LOL!!! I lost 50 in under a year in 2010. Kinda stopped being strict and gained 10 back. Then gained almost 20 back, then felt awful and miserable and got back on track big time and since July of this year lost 30. So it's been on and off since 2010. Hoping to break 100 by the spring to…

Exercise is a great stress reliever, at least for me it is. And I don't mean going to the gym and walking at a 3.0 pace on the treadmill I mean a hard workout where you can release some of that energy. I take martial arts/kickboxing classes and that is an amazing stress reliever. Punching and kicking does wonders for a…

I don't get the whole "meet me" thing either. I've actually messaged guys after they clicked "meet ME" and they didn't respond. I'm like okay WTF? My pics are the same that you saw in the meet me section but in an actual message you don't like them anymore?? Stupid feature in my opinion ....

From a party Sat night....

Thank you bmarie!! They wouldn't show up for me for some reason...

I've had that happen before too, when it just goes REALLY well and doesn't end. Had a 1st date once, we met around 7-7:30ish (pm) and it went until 3 or 4 am. We just clicked, had a lot in common to talk about and then, um ... :love: perhaps some smooching for a few hrs :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: LOL And FYI, we…

HAHAHA!!! No kidding, these people are nuts! Player my *kitten*, he's a wacko! LOL

Oh boy I have 2 doosy's but not sure how much you guys want me to babble on ... I'll see if I can summarize. Nutcase # 1) Guy messaged me and we chatted online a bit. Kept asking me if I wanted to meet for a drink, usually during the week which is typically something I don't do Anyhow, asks me to go to a concert with him…

The verdict is in!!! I went from a 40 to a 36 :noway: but still D's! YAY!!! I actually felt sexy and thinner in the smaller bra that actually fit right... amazing. :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

I stepped away from the computer for a while and wow, this thread exploded!!! HAHA!! Awesome comments :) When I lost 30 lbs I got measured and they were the same size. Now at almost 70 lbs I'm noticing the change in my bra. I will get measured again and get an "in-between" one since the Victoria Secret ones I have now can…

Some of these responses are quite humorous, as one would expect! I plan on getting measured over the weekend, I'm hoping the cup size hasn't changed and only the number, that would make me happy. I actually like having D's :bigsmile:

You MUST be kidding!!!?? LOL :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Thanks for the feedback. I actually went to my first one last night. Thankfully I brought a friend with me. I was surprisingly nervous going in, I guess the fear of not knowing what to expect My friend, not on Match, came as my guest was nervous too. I was actually pretty impressed with it. Better than I had expected just…

Just another suggestion is one of the single parent websites. There, you'd have a chance to meet someone also with kid(s) who will understand your time limitations and perhaps your "every other weekend" would be the same as theirs, or other schedules are similar so it would be convenient to get together. Evenings when the…

Thanks! That means a lot. I only have such goof self control now because I'm finally seeing results and can't blow it! I also forgot to mention at the gym Saturday morning for my usual kickboxing/martial arts class, a girl that I see there every so often but don't really talk to, (see her there and many others, since we…