ericagray Member

does anyone else have trouble making the scale budge? I've been working out everyday!!

Damn. I came here thinking someone tried it

My weigh in day is Thursdays as well !

Start weight: 189 Curent: 183.6 Goal by Christmas: 139 Ultimate goal: 115 I have had some slip ups but jumping right back on it.

I have 60 pounds to lose so 55 would be awesome. I'm Erica. From Pennsylvania. 24 and just had my third and final baby. I wanna get back in ahape!! I'm in !

Hey Everyone! I split from my "husband" on September 21st, so we have been separated for about 3 months. It feels like so much longer! Since then I have gotten a job, and I am starting school in January. I'm happy, most of the time, and I actually have friends! I feel that this has ONLY made me a stronger person. Him and I…

Hi guys! I had told him yesterday that I wanted a separation and he got really mad grabbed me and tried to get my phone away from me, and kicked me out..So I am now staying at my aunts in the next county over, He is saying he still wants to work things out, but I have no interest. But now I am starting to feel bad and feel…

yeah, I'm sorry rob1976 would you like it if your wife kissed another man? would you like it if she tried having sex with another man?

Ohhh and let's not forget that he told me that he wasn't sure if he had feelings for her or not while he was on hid way to meet her, but knew that he didn't once he left. THAT HURTS right along with him not thinking about my son or I until after everything happened. In fact he asked her if she wanted to hang out. I try to…

This is what I am scared of happening and I don't want to sit around watching and waiting for it. I can't and I won't. I give kudos for you trying to make it work. Same here, I didn't think this would happen either. The day before I left, he told me how much he would miss me blah blah and while I was at the beach, I would…

I would have to wait to get a divorce, right? And that takes 90+ days. Can i still make the single mother thing work?

My father was very controlling and abusive, physically and emotionally. This is why she divorced him.

Thank you soooo much!! This means a lot. I'm just really scared, I know he can play dirty..but i know what i need to do..

Thats what the finacial aide office told me, and honestly I don't get it because I have a child and live on my own, but my husband did claim me on his taxes due to me not working..

Another thing, before I found out I was pregnant, I was planning on going to college, filling out apps, and all that fun stuff. I was looking forward to it,m and I could wait to start. Josh, my husband had already went to college(university of Pittsburgh) only for a semester and got to have the experience, and had the…

What kind of visitation would you recommend? I think I am going to stay at my mothers house, only because it is closer. I don't love him and when he says "I love you" I rarely say it back and if I do it's because he won't leave me alone about it. I don't love him. I feel bad for him sometimes..that's about it. I think I…

I actually just talked to her, and I had told her that I think- NO I KNOW i want out and she said fine, that she is getting exhausted of trying to keep us together when I'm not happy. She just said make sure that is what I want and know when I leave, that he may find someone else.I'm just so scared feeling like I can't do…

You're right, and the reason I want my mom to agree with my choice is because I need support. I will need somewhere to go..

when I first read this I wanted to go off, but you are right, I was very very stupid!!!

I am like that too! I have gotten upset with him in the past couple weeks and have thrown it in his face. The day I found out, he was talking to me, putting me don, making me feel like I was the one doing something wrong, He has done this many times.

Yessss!!! this exactly want I keep telling my mother. I DO NOT want my son thinking that he needs to treat girls like this calling them names and putting them down, and cheating is deff NOT right. Well his mother had cheated on his father and they are still together! yay for them, guess what? His mom cheated and so did…

My mom and dad were divorced and she doesn't want me to go through the custody mess like she did, and she also thinks I should work this out for my son because "his parents need to be together" The way I look at it many people get divorced, and the kids are okay. I am worried about my son not being as happy BUT I also feel…

so the courts will take the cheating into consideration?

The killling thing, I have been there more than once, sometimes, i'll drive down the road just imagining getting into an accident, and if I would, then I wouldn't have to live this life anymore. SOOOO glad you didn't do it, and as for me. I think I can make my life better. Ending my life at 19 over someone who obviously…

this is what i am really worried about is my son. Do your kids ask to see you a lot? Do they seem effected at all? I can't just walk away and leave my son behind. He has told me that if i want to leave and forget this ever happened, then I can do that. I don't my son is my son, i won't just give up on him because of what…

I am from PA, and it was the university of Pennsylvania (penn state)

This is exactly what my grandmother had told me. That's exactly why I posted this, because I wanted to get everyone's opinion. Funny thing is, he is being extremely nice, is it going to last? I doubt it, therefore I can't buy into it.

What is that answer? My mother pretty much pushed me this direction, I don't know about him, he says he wanted to get married, but I didn't. I told my mom I wasn't ready and she just tells me that's normal and keeps going with the planning and then she tells me that if I don't get married, I am living in sin, and I can't…

Thanks everyone! He told me he had cheated because I wasn't being "as affectionate as he wanted" I for one find that hard to believe, I mean, I felt I was affectionate with him even more than he wanted. I just don't get why he would go to her, she was always mean to him! Anyway, like I said, he is willing to go to…

I was friends with his "ex" he dated her for about a month or two and it was a year before we met. I started becoming friends with her when her and I had gotten pregnant around the same time. I thought nothing of it to be friends with her. They both stated that they had no feelings for each other, and that was that, I…