Meghan0116 Member

I speak Spanish, lived in Mexico for a time, and have dated Hispanic guys. Not once was friend an endearment. Maybe it is where he is from. The Latinos I dated were mostly Mexican, so it could be something from another region or country. Would it weird you out if the creepy dude wasn't saying the same thing? Personally, I…

That's great Carl. I hope this helps your self-confidence because you are such an amazing guy!

I read all of my messages and only respond to ones that seem to have put any effort in, even if it is to say that I appreciate the message but..... What are you saying in your messages to these women?

Exactly! I haven't asked for a blood test but I make sure that we are protected. Because it could end up be a nasty situation. ewwww

No dates, which is 100% okay. Just a lot of time with my baby boy.

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I like that. A lot.

That is true but I don't think I am ready to meet her yet. I did a lot of thinking last night that I made me realize the real reason behind my feelings about this.

Por nada amor.

I love this picture! I see no dorkiness at all. And I have to say that it is one of God's major unfairnesses. No one should get to look like Janie and be that smart too. :flowerforyou:

Your outlook on the situation is great. I am really proud of you!

Janie, you and I have talked about this before. My education background is BS in Psychology and MS Ed in Mental Health Counseling. I think that for me the Master's isn't as intimidating as the mental health counseling part. lol I really hate that part of the getting to know you process. *So, did you go to college? * Yes *…

Thank you! I think it is more about going out with two couples. But yeah, I am a little lonely so I was kind of hopeful. I am just going to get all dressed up and sexy and have a great time.

Keep us updated about Isaac. I will be thinking about you. I didn't do much. Seems I have been dropped by Mike. Earlier last week we made plans for Sunday and then nothing. Meh.

Hey now, I have a dream board for weight loss. lol Okay,. it is more of a board with messages telling me to get off my fat *kitten* and stop making excuses. bahahahaha

Yay!!! That is so exciting!

I think it would be really interesting to see what all of our Myers-Briggs or something similar are. There must be a correlation between that and our singleness.

I switch back and forth from an INFJ and INTJ depending on the day. lol I am such a weirdo.

I wish I had some great advice because I deal with the exact same thing. Some days I feel like I am beautiful and other days I feel like something that crawled out from under a rock. I am working on not letting some things bother me, like reading that men prefer skinny women, etc. I also try to do affirmations to remind…

I could write all day. lol I miss kissing. I miss those little touches, like you can't help but touch each other I miss sitting quietly watching TV together I miss the arm draped over my waist in bed I do not miss cleaning up after someone else or the occasional fight

Luckily I have a couple really great single mom friends and our kids get along well. I am also in a working moms group from meetup.com and that can be fun. Sometimes being a single parent can get really lonely though and that does suck. The longer I am single the more I am starting to feel lonely.

There is no way in hell that I could get past missing teeth. Blegh. That is one of my things. And, there is nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone. Just tell him that you had a good time but there was no spark for you. That way it is on you and it might not hurt his feelings.

Now that is just mean. LOL Love those little quickies.

My weekend was pretty good. Fourth date with Mike, we went to dinner and saw Bourne Legacy. No brown chicken brown cow though. Starting to feel a little frisky here. lol The rest of the weekend I spent with my son. He is such a wonderful little boy but there are times I want to toss him over the balcony. haha

Communication is key, talk about it. If she isn't willing to discuss the sexual issues, it does not bode well for future communications.

I love it!!!! I am so impressed with you! I work for The Salvation Army and at Christmas we partner with the Marine's Toys for Tots drive to distribute gifts. For the last two years, there has been this gorgeous, crazy intense, totally intimidating marine there. We constantly stared at each other but I could never work up…

Well, I took your advice Anna and I asked him if he'd like to go out Sat night and he said yes. So we will see. I think some if my confusion comes from my last relationships. The guys wanted to get together as much as possible. Mike isn't like that. He is kind if a loner who seems to really need his alone time. For the…

LMAO. Exactly. All I could think was don't poot.

I am not trying to be argumentative because I get the theory of where you are coming from but I don't believe that you actually read the replies to my original post. If you had, you would have seen very little coddling and more genuine advice about how I should have handled things differently. I am 100% okay with differing…

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