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My pof profile: Suggestions?
I am getting ready to post my new profile and I would like some suggestions. Thank you! I really appreciate it. :) Below is my pof profile. I haven't hit submit yet. Please let me know what you think. Thank you! So, I am not really that self-centered but I do think I am pretty awesome. Well at least my mom tells me I am.…
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Sooooooooooooo
I am single again. Boooo to me. Things were great with B for awhile and then they went downhill. I couldn't take it anymore so I ended the relationship. It lasted about 6 months. Since I broke up with him, he has been mean and nasty and now I am seeing the real guy under the pretty words. I feel stupid and naive. Now,…
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The pop ups
Hey everyone! I know I haven't been around much. With the holidays and moving last week, not to mention my boy toy, I haven't been on. Something popped up this morning and I was just wondering why. Before B, I was dating this guy off and on for months. Mostly he was doing a push you pull you thing and it never amounted to…
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Soooooooo
I have been pretty quiet on here because work has been really busy and my personal life has actually been busy. lol I have been dating this guy for over a month now and while that doesn't seem like very long, we are exclusive. Neither of us wants to date anyone else and we really enjoy each other. We talk for at least a…
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What is wrong with me????
My son's father and I have been broken up for three years. He has recently started dating someone, 4-5 months or so, and he has her around Donovan quite a bit. I am not thrilled with this because one, I don't know her, and two, well he is still my son's father and it hurts a bit to know that he has moved on. I know this is…
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Birthday
Sorry in advance for a pity party post. Friday is my 32nd birthday. I was really hopeful that I would at least be dating someone when it came around. But no, seems that Mike has poofed. That is okay because I wasn't having terribly strong feelings for him anyway. I liked him and enjoyed his company but that was it. I am…
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So tired.....
I am so tired of dating. I am so tired of the whole thing. It seems like it should be fun and exciting but it isn't. I am still "seeing" Mike I guess. We went on two dates two weeks in a row and then didn't see each other for two weeks due to work conflicts. We had dinner last Thursday and I let him know that I don't have…
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Ugh, those damn insecurities
I really need a yes or no answer to the following situation. Been talking to his really nice guy for about 3 weeks. We had our first date last Sunday and it went great. He texted me the next day saying he had a really good time. He even asked me Sunday night when we could get together again. I gave him the days I wouldn't…
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Question for ya'll
Anna and I have been discussing the guy I have been on two dates with a little and I am curious about something. I know that we have only been on two dates and I am not yet emotionally invested but I am interested in continuing to get to know him. However, I have been talking to another guy and he and I have not yet met.…
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Weekend Updates
Another weekend down, so let's hear the updates about anything you did. :) Every two months I get a Saturday/Sunday without my son. This is because of his father's 4 on 2 off schedule. Anyway, a couple of friends and I went out and I have to admit, I looked pretty damn awesome. I didn't meet anyone, but that is okay, I had…
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Weekend Updates
Come on people, let's hear how those dates went. Or whatever other fun things you did this weekend. :drinker:
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Please smack me
I am not going to go into a lot of detail but I would like to understand how much you should text the day after a date. I feel like it I text too much I am coming across clingy, too little and I seem disinterested. This is driving me nuts. Saw this guy whom I talk to off and on yesterday and I do like him quite a bit. This…
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Self-confidence
My best friend and I were talking this morning about our good points and flaws. We are both pretty self-actualized but she said that the one thing she wants is for me to realize how pretty, smart, and worthwhile I am. That I need to focus on developing self-confidence. Now, I know the tips, tricks and techniques to do this…
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Pet Peeve
Feel free to rip me to shreds for being nit picky. lol I have been talking to this guy for a bit and he is really nice, very complimentary, and we are going out Friday night. However, he already calls me baby, babe, hun, etc. I know it is ridiculous but that always gets on my nerves until there is an actual relationship.…
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Opinions???
My son's father doesn't have court mandated child support. He pays half of daycare, which is $360 a month each, and gives me $240 a month in child support. It isn't as much as he should but he mostly does that. Well, at least the daycare part. I have been putting off taking him to court because I really haven't wanted to…
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Those little things...
Jen's dumping post made me wonder about this. What are the little things that lead to break ups or just poofing. For example, does it really matter if a girl's bra and undies match? Or if a guy uses too much hairspray or gel?
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Why....
Do I keep doing this to myself? We have had this discussion multiple times on here but I still don't understand poofing. I started talking to Dan (the one who was supposed to stay the night but dipped instead) again earlier this week. We texted nonstop pretty much and then after 530 yesterday, nothing. He just stopped…
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War of the Sexes
I keep clicking through two different threads to read the back and forth between the ladies here and the gentlemen. I figured a central war of the sexes place would make things easier. Well, for me. lol From what I have read today we have a few central themes happening. Nice guy vs. bad boy Douches Women overanalyze Why…
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Macros???
Could ya'll tell me how to set my macros to fit the Keto diet? I have been trying to do under 45g of carbs a day but I think it might need to be lower. Thank you!!!
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Weird texts
I need ya'lls opinions about the texts exchanged today between me and Thursday night guy. Don't judge me for texting first. lol Me 1:00 pm: I have missed chatting with you. Guess I just wanted you to know. I hope you find what you are looking for. Him 1:05 pm: I have missed it as well, I didn't see a reason why it had to…
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I have decided......
After a lot of thinking this weekend I decided that I am going to be indefinitely celibate. I still plan on dating but there will be no sex. I am not even going to consider sleeping with anyone until I lose 20 more lbs. Since it took me 7 months to lose 30, I figure that this is a good way, and a decent amount of time, for…
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Excited!
Why do I always feel like talking about this stuff will jinx it? I am going to anyway because I am excited. "Met" a guy off pof and we have a date tomorrow night! We have been chatting for 4-5 days so far I guess. He is funny, witty, cute, and tall. lol I don't want to get too excited because then I start to over think.…
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When breaking things off with someone.......
Is it better to do it in the morning or wait until later in the day so he is closer to being finished with work????? Yes, I am going to be a weenie. This is a conversation I definitely cannot have face to face.
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Do you believe this.......
You will meet someone when you least expect it When you stop looking so hard, it will happen etc. Blegh.
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Why do I care?
My son's father and I were together for 8 years. I asked him to leave when my son was 6 months old. He wasn't abusive, just extraordinarily selfish and neglectful. Things really went downhill when I found out I was pregnant. Here is my question, we will haven been broken up for 3 years this July. I have dated off and on…
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Update!
Sooooooo, I did have the date Sunday night! I had to wait for him at the bar for 45 minutes because he had to take a friend home. Luckily I had a book in my car. lol Anyway, he is pretty cute and has a major rockabilly style with lots of tattoos. *sigh* lol We talked for a good long while until karaoke started. That was…
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Achilles Tendonitis
Hello all! I have a question for those who have or have had tendonitis. A couple months ago I was diagnosed with Achilles tendonitis and the doctor said to not run for a week and then I should be good. Uh, it has been 2 months and I still can't run. It even sometimes hurts when I walk. How long does this type of injury…
