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There's nothing wrong with the minister doing it. You could just write up the highlights of her life and have him read it. I believe we did that with both my sister and my mother, then we had a time of sharing, and that's when family members got up to talk about detailed memories. Thinking of you every day. It was nice of…

Michele-- are you on prolia? Look up osteonecrosis of the jaw. I am on xgeva, an injection every 3 months. It is the same thing as prolia, I believe. And I do have to be very careful with dental procedures. Basic check ups, cleanings, fillings, and crowns are fine. But extractions and invasive oral surgery are not…

Oh Beth. So sad about your mom. I hope she is able to get back to where she was. Falls are so serious at that age. Thank you for thinking of me. This season was harder than I expected. I guess last year I was still in shock and there was so much to do. I was trying to make my mom's peanut butter fudge a few days ago, and…

My three loves, plus a spare. (They have their back to the camera. My eldest's partner.) We had a lovely day. Watched Die Hard while we were waiting for the couple to arrive. My two son's say it is a Christmas movie. I remain unconvinced. Lol Flea Willamette Valley OR

Merry Christmas! Flea Willamette Valley OR

Allie. That looks so sore, but you look very cute. Your shirt is very festive. Flea Willamette Valley OR

I'm so sorry, Carol. He looks like he was a very friendly and happy person. What a difficult time for your family. Annie, I'm sorry you felt disrespected when the minster came to the house to talk to your dad. It does seem a little manipulative of him, but perhaps he didn't realize he should be talking to you? It's…

I'm so sorry, Annie. Take care. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Hugs to Annie and Rosemary, especially. Such difficult times. Annie, your dad's reaction is heartbreaking. I feel so bad for him and his limited understanding of what is happening. I'm thankful your mom is comfortable. You are doing a lovely service caring for her and your dad during this time. Take care of yourself, too,…

I'm feeling your pain, Annie. It is heartbreaking. I hope your sister can get to you soon. Take care. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Yes, Margaret. Xanthum Gum. It doesn't take much. For baking, I usually use cup for cup types of floor which already have the xanthum gum in them. That way I can use my regular recipes, and just substitute the gluten free baking flour. Good luck! Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Hugs, Annie. The day before my mom died, one of her friends, who is my age wanted to visit her. I was against it, but she insisted. She asked if there was anything she could bring, and I started to say no, then remembered that I needed food. (I didn't want to leave my mom's side.) She ended up bringing two meals for me,…

INFJ-Advocate -- that sounds about right. In Strength Finders, two of my strengths are empathy and developer. I see my role as an administrator to build my people to be their best selves. Students too, I guess. Which is why I get frustrated with students who aren't interested in learning because that indicates to me that…

Gina -- That Who Tree is adorable! Beth -- I am jealous of that snow. I lived in Syracuse for about four years, and I really grew to love those big snows. Michele -- <hugs> I'm so sorry you're hurting and don't blame you bit for it. Rita -- Sorry about your kidneys. My kidneys and I don't get along either. I just looked at…

Oh, Annie. I'm sorry the diagnosis was confirmed. I was holding out hope that it would be otherwise. The riding and fresh air will be great for you. Remember to put yourself as a priority in all of this as well. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Allie, I'm sorry to hear about Homer. I know it will be difficult for both of you. He's also the last tie to Tom, so I'm sure there are extra emotions related to that floating around. Take care of yourself. Protect your heart. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

So sorry, Annie. I am thankful your sister is there to help you think through options. I also advocate for hospice. They serve the patient and the family. Much love. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Debbie -- your 3d things are really amazing. I agree that your prices are too low. The filament and time is a huge investment. I'm glad you all were able to make some money at it. Take care of yourself. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Thanks, Allie. I'm just being a butt. They are fine. I just need a Christmas vacation! Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Here's a video of the lake with my son (blue kayak) and me (orange kayak) kayaking. My husband is demonstrating the drone, so you can mute if you don't want to hear him describe the features. But it is a beautiful shot of the lake. Skip to 5:18 for the lake shots. I tried to clip it from there, but I must have done…

Our house display. It's actually from Christmas 2021. Enjoy! You can mute, if you don't want to hear my husband describe what he did. At about 3:13, it's just the lights and music. https://youtu.be/Xfa8o6FlDP0?si=goyA5ghb1PQ9oolf Flea Willamette Valley, OR

I love it! That's more than I'm going to do. Hubby does a huge house light show. He's been working on it for a couple weeks. Once he has it up, we'll take video and post it on youtube. I'll see if I can find the link for last year's lights. They really are amazing. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Yes. I will invest my share. My husband is still unemployed. One year now. I think I cursed his employment, because about a month before he was fired, I told him I was ready to retire, and that I would use my mom's annuities and help him be successful in his job and just be a wife and mom. A few weeks later, he was laid…

I totally misread that, Michele. I thought Denise had texted her the day before with the invitation. I'm sorry Denise didn't even acknowledge the invitation. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Ah! I didn't notice that. It's 2371 St. Andrews Drive -- the most reasonably priced listings, in my opinion. We are hopeful that since it is affordable, for the area, it might sell more quickly. I can't edit the original post. I think this is the link directly to my mom's house:…

Good morning! Annie -- I'm so sorry for your mother's troubles. A biopsy really needs to be done before an official diagnosis can be given, so try not to run to worst case scenario until you have more information. Family gathering now seems premature, but perhaps because of her age family feels more urgency? Everything…

Hi, Annie. I know you worry about your parents. You are so sweet to be caring for them. Put the stage 3 ckd out of your mind. You have enough to worry about. If she needed a nephrologist, someone would have recommended it. I technically have it, as well, and I'm just told to avoid salt, cut down red meats, and drink lots…

Rita -- I love pupusas. We had them in Belize, and since returning, we've discovered a Salvadoran restaurant which serves them. I'm sad to admit that I eat mine with a fork. The slaw is amazing. Allie -- sorry about your friend. Is this the one you used to talk about when you first moved into your new place? Machka --…

Oh Karen. I am so very sorry. He was so talented. Flea Willamette Valley OR

You and I are of similar ages. I agree with Tracy. Save your money. A car should not be considered an asset because of depreciation. Flea Willamette Valley OR