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Hi! I'm new here. I need motivation, help and advice. I was one of those always-skinny-never-had-to-watch-what-I-ate people. Well, now I'm 39, work full time at a desk and have 3 kids and 2 step kids and an ex. When I can veg, I sit in bed with the love of my life and watch tv and eat. I've put on 20 lbs. I left my abusive…