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Re: What Should I do With a Negative Person?
Some people are able to control relationships because the other person was needy, had low self-esteem, or something similar. Once that dynamics shifts they lose control. It is insecurity in the fact …2 -
Re: How do handle when your SO doesn't believe in you?
The reason this is so common is that people always equate losing weight to trying to look good. And, for the most part, most people here do it for this reason (vanity). So, this is why you get resist…6 -
Re: Do it for urself- sorry, not convinced
Well, when you do it for others then you are seeking external vaidation. And you will always be at their mercy. You will tie your worth to whether or not they approve of you. Not a healthy way to liv…1 -
Re: How do YOU shut down a hater?
Once you realize the hating is a reflection about how they feel about themselves you can just not react to it at all.1 -
Re: I HATE victims
The problem is so many people come here that are emotionally wounded. They all have this idea that they are NOT OK just the way they are. So they think all their problems will be solved if they lose …3
