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Re: You are Not Fat (and Why This *kitten* Really Needs to Stop)
I think you're trying to be kind, so I will be kind in return. :) I am fat. I've been fat a so long, in fact, that it's had a significant impact on my socialization and identity. I've worked really h…7 -
Re: How to talk to Spouse (Wife) about getting healthier?
I think you need to be more involved at home. The lifestyle you've described here isn't working for the two of you, though it may work perfectly for people who love having very independent lives. I'l…7 -
Re: Officially 50 lbs down!
Congrats on the weight loss, 50 is a lot of hard work! You started out super pretty and continue to be!2 -
Re: I am reliant on others for my happiness
Here's something that helped me once: That feeling that you get when you think of Tengfei? It's actually you. You made that feeling; you made that version of Tengfei. The real human Tengfei--though n…1 -
Re: Sometimes I don't know why I'm pushing so hard. Losing 130+lbs solved nothing.
The best advice I've ever heard on this topic is from Dan Savage. "“I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that’s worth living, one where you do what you want t…16
