Online Dating "Red Flags"
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Homenum Revelio Marriageitis!!! or for us that didn't get to go to Hogwarts, I guess Google is the next best thing. Sorry that he turned out that way. /=photo_kyla wrote: »Is there some magic way to easily spot the married ones???
I was just talking to this guy (profile said single) for 5 days and over 300 long messages of platonic conversation. We really hit it off. I was trying to find an old childhood friend of my dad's online and thought "hey, why not google him?"
It turns out he's married and has been for 4 years. Never once did he mention anything about her, even in conversations about family and relationships.
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Oh my .... the stories I could tell would make one wonder why on earth I didn't know and why in the hell I continued to try. lol
* income greater than $100,000 required - really?
* drinks regularly - awesome for the local VFW
* drunk driving and admitting it ... with their kid in the car ... Mother of the Year award on the way.
* height - must be taller than _____
* avoiding a question brought up in conversation - hiding something
* pictures without a "date stamp or obvious decade it was taken" - likely has morphed into a troll over the years
* getting upset that I found them on social media - once again, hiding something
* wants to keep in close contact with a former BF - hasn't moved on.
* very religious - to each their own
* prints off emails to analyze them for hidden meaning - yes, I kid you not
* women who have professional photo shoot pics just for the dating site
* showing too much skin in pics online - attention *kitten*
* hiding an addiction or physical condition
* serial daters ... loving the chase or being chased.
* hearing, "my cell isn't working right" .... avoiding calls or texts frequently
* separated
* and worst but not least, women who don't really know what they want. For most, I can tell in the 1st 10 minutes of meeting if I'm interested and I try and be upfront. Why waste their time right? However, since I know what I want and have no issues telling someone I really enjoyed their company, that seems to freak some of them out and I never hear back from them. Ok, why date then? lol ... which makes me wonder if they are either serial daters or chasers.
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If all the pix are of her and her friends and I have to sift thru the pix and 'figure' out which one she is. Maybe not a red flag but pretty damn annoying.0
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Larger men who are not all that fit, wanting only fit women. I often want to ask.. "Do you own a mirror??"0
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- "Looking for Mr Right" : I don't know what I want but I am a simple fool and I am manipulated by others all the time. Yes, you can have some of that too.
- "No drama": I will bring enough in your life: my friends call me drama.
- "Treat me like a queen, I will treat you like a king": I am high maintenance, I will b!tch all the time and I will complain loudly and make scenes. Thanks for the money, it was nice knowing you.
- "I'm crazy!": I'm boring.
- "My passions/sports/activities": I can't put drinking and hanging out with friends, right? So I shall list the things I've done once or twice last year.
- "A picture of me in Peru": from 3 years ago. I haven't travelled since. I don't look any younger either.
- Only face/blurry/hipster-filter pics: your imagination will disappoint you.
- Girly pictures with girly girls and selfies: I'm superficial and I won't understand all the words you will be using. LOL
xxx
I love reading between the lines to see what people actually mean.0
