Random Question
OS_KAT
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So, if you've been dating someone for about three months, and they have become a pretty important part of your life (met the family, gone away on a weekend trip to NYC together), how long do you give them not being in any sort of contact with you before panicking? I haven't heard from him since Sunday, he hasn't responded to any of my calls or texts, and this is a guy who would text me multiple times a day to just let me know he was thinking of me and saying hi.
Honestly, I'm vacillating between being terrified he is unconscious in a hospital somewhere and thinking he's being a total d!ck and ghosting me. Any suggestions are helpful.
Honestly, I'm vacillating between being terrified he is unconscious in a hospital somewhere and thinking he's being a total d!ck and ghosting me. Any suggestions are helpful.
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Yeah....you need to initiate contact and find out what the deal is. A week? Oh...hells no.0
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I contacted him several times, and he never responded. My friend ended up calling his office and he answered the phone. It would have been forgivable if he had been in the hospital or something, but since he was at work and obviously capable of communication I sent him a text telling him not to bother contacting me again. Some people...0
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Yep. Time to ditch his country buttox.0
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Looks like a player to me, got the booty and ran!0
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Eh sounds like he's an idiot to me. I've dealt with plenty of players before -- they don't mess with the family. He was a total liar and realized I was about to catch him out on all of it. Don't date smart girls if you're a liar lol.0
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True dat0