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Ok ladies, a lot of us are at day 7 or 8, how are we doing?? So is moving on to level 2 after day 10 and who is staying on level 1 for a bit??
Personally, I'm ready to move to level 2 soon but my wonderful husband isn't quite ready, so I will be staying on level 1 at least 15 days total. Maybe I can get off of doing the modified versions of some things in that time! We shall see........
I'm anxious about what will happen when I go back to school next week. Life gets busy this week and I'm worried........I will also be starting a R.I.P.P,E.D. class once school starts up and will be doing that on top of running and 30DS......... Insane? Maybe!!
Personally, I'm ready to move to level 2 soon but my wonderful husband isn't quite ready, so I will be staying on level 1 at least 15 days total. Maybe I can get off of doing the modified versions of some things in that time! We shall see........
I'm anxious about what will happen when I go back to school next week. Life gets busy this week and I'm worried........I will also be starting a R.I.P.P,E.D. class once school starts up and will be doing that on top of running and 30DS......... Insane? Maybe!!
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how many levels are there?
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I'm day 9 today 6/8/13 and tomorrow will be my last day of lv1. will be moving on to lv2 starting day 11 so thursday :happy:0
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Well yesterday was supposed to be day eight but my husband broke the deal he made with me two weeks ago. I was getting fed up with feeling like a single parent and came up with what I thought was a good plan. He has three days where the kids are all his and I have three where the kids are all mine. That way we each have our off days and time with the kids. Well yesterday was his day and I offered to do the dishes since he had a sink full of them and I was using my off day to catch up on laundry and he threw a fit about having to make dinner (which was also part of the arrangements for our days) like I was not already doing enough work on my off day when on his off day it wouldn't matter if I had a kitchen full of dishes and kids screaming....he wouldn't even so much as look our way let alone offer a hand. So anyways, yesterday he went to bed after dinner leaving me to get the kids ready for bed and tucked in. I was getting into the shower and heard my littlest one coughing and asked him to please give her rescue inhaler because it sounded like she had that dry cough before an attack. He threw a fit but said he would. I took my shower thinking everything was fine but when I got out I heard my girl crying and choking and grabbed a towel and ran to her and she coughed so much for so long that she threw up. He was at his computer with his head phones on! Ignoring her! I was so angry I just can't even explain it. So yeah, I'm just at my wits end with him. I don't get how he can be so selfish.
Anyways...rant over...
Today will hopefully be day 8 but I do have to go shopping and our store is an hour away. I guess I will really have to try hard to stay motivated that long.0 -
oh gosh - sorry honey but he sounds like a right git to put your little ones health at risk like that is not right. my husband and i have had similar deals go on but he always seems to back out of as much as he can. when my daughter was born he refused to do any nappies so i said fine you take over the housework as well as cooking and she will be completely my resposibility with regards feeding (she's breast fed anyway) changing, bathing, clothing and putting to sleep. Then the deal whittled down to him with washing up and cooking as he wasnt doing the rest, then the washing up has gone out the window and he's left with cooking which he tries to get out of with take out as often as he can.
persevering DOESN'T WORK with my husband at least. trying to get him to spend time with her is a chore as he is home for about 2 hours before she goes to bed and he mostly spends that time either cooking if he will that night or on his computer. Ive learned to live with it for the most part now but he still pisses me the hell off.
With regards to reaching day 8 well done. perhaps take your frustration out on jillian like a lot of people here are doing when there *kitten* holes are acting up :laugh:
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What a turd :noway:
***hugs*** hope it works out for you tonight. Men can be so insensitive sometimes.0 -
Yeah I just don't get it. I mean I love taking care of my kids and him. I'm just that kind of person where I enjoy caring for the people I love. And sometimes when I feel like I'm doing too much I try and get rid of those thoughts and do what I can to show him and my children that I'm happy doing what I do.
He has always been this way. We almost split once because of it, he was moving to Texas with our oldest and I was staying in Cali with our baby and I was just done. After a year and a half of not even hardly talking to one another and I was pregnant! He didn't go with me to a single apt, my dr didn't want to hand our daughter over to him at the birth because he didn't know who the heck he was!
It's just so frustrating! And tonight after work he will want to pretend like nothing is wrong.0 -
I'm doing Day 3 today...going to be mixing up JM with other things so I think I'll be a little slower than others, but that is okay
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I'm on day 6. I started on July 30th but missed 2 days (boo!). So I'll be moving up to level 2 on Sunday the 11th.0
