What does it mean when a guy says......

Carlyannabelle

"I want you so bad, I miss you in every way"

Steming from the "How do you know a guy is really into you thread" it seems to me that it sounds like he really is into me, but then the insecure, been burned before part of me comes out and makes me wonder if it is just about sex.

This is the guy that I met on vacation and we had instant chemistry. We have talked every single day since I have left and are planning on meeting again soon in a few short weeks. I am just hoping I am not putting in all this effort for it to just be what I have feared.

Thoughts? Good sign?

MissingMinnesota

Sorry but how could this been taken anyway but that he misses you?

Carlyannabelle

Sorry but how could this been taken anyway but that he misses you?

Just looking for validation I guess. Thanks.

jenbit

I want you so bad is pretty self explanitory... Not to be negative but he wants you .....don't be suprised if he wants to get in your pants when you guys meet up again in a few weeks ........SO what do YOU want in that situation

kimad

I have learned over the last while to take man's words at face value. There is nothing 'between the lines' so to speak.

I would take it as he misses you, but it sounds like with his attraction and the distance you have had that he wants some physical attention too - whatever that may be.

AnnaPixie

OF Course he wants to have sex with you. What makes you think that any man doesnt want sex??

And why is that a problem if he does? Would you prefer that he didnt find you sexually attractive?

You might waste your time on this guy. You might not. I really dont know anyone that will have a definitive answer for you. Life is about choice and if you choose to waste your time on this guy now, then let's hope he's choosing to waste his time on you too. Cos he's probably thinking exactly the same thing about you!

Relax and give it a chance? Or, walk away. The choice is yours.......... :flowerforyou:

dbrightwell1270

I can tell you I am not going to drive 5.5 hours to see a woman I don't want to have sex with. I am also not going to drive 5.5 hours solely for the prospect of sex either.

Carlyannabelle

I am also not going to drive 5.5 hours solely for the prospect of sex either.

Thank you, I think that is what I was trying to reassure myself about. Of course I want him to be sexually interested in me as I am of him, I was just afraid that that is what it was only about. But you make a good point as that is a long way to drive for a booty call.

RunIntheMud

I can tell you I am not going to drive 5.5 hours to see a woman I don't want to have sex with. I am also not going to drive 5.5 hours solely for the prospect of sex either.

Yep... that's the blunt way of saying what I was going to say.

He misses you. Don't worry about it, just see what happens.

lacroyx

I have learned over the last while to take man's words at face value. There is nothing 'between the lines' so to speak.

I would take it as he misses you, but it sounds like with his attraction and the distance you have had that he wants some physical attention too - whatever that may be.

For the most part men are not very complicated creatures. We mean what we say.

JaneDough_

lolwut

Carlyannabelle

He likes me....He REALLY likes me. When he told me his whole family wants to meet me because he talks about be all the time, all my insecurities went out the door. Like I said I am so new to this dating thing, that I have no idea what signs are good or not. But if he is telling his family about me, he has to have some feelings towards me.

Thanks everyone, I know I am going to give this a chance!

jesusHchris

Was it a text message? He's trying to be romantic and sexy. Cut him some slack, that *kitten*'s hard to do via an onscreen keypad. Also, send him photos of your breasts immediately.

raige123

"I want you so bad, I miss you in every way"

Steming from the "How do you know a guy is really into you thread" it seems to me that it sounds like he really is into me, but then the insecure, been burned before part of me comes out and makes me wonder if it is just about sex.

This is the guy that I met on vacation and we had instant chemistry. We have talked every single day since I have left and are planning on meeting again soon in a few short weeks. I am just hoping I am not putting in all this effort for it to just be what I have feared.

Thoughts? Good sign?

I would say good sign. Especially where it's a distance thing. He could have gone home and never talked to you again. When distance is involved I put more credit into a man putting in the effort!

MissingMinnesota

Was it a text message? He's trying to be romantic and sexy. Cut him some slack, that *kitten*'s hard to do via an onscreen keypad. Also, send him photos of your breasts immediately.

AnnaPixie

Was it a text message? He's trying to be romantic and sexy. Cut him some slack, that *kitten*'s hard to do via an onscreen keypad. Also, send him photos of your breasts immediately.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

AnnaPixie

Was it a text message? He's trying to be romantic and sexy. Cut him some slack, that *kitten*'s hard to do via an onscreen keypad. Also, send him photos of your breasts immediately.

I have to love you to send boobie pics. I mean, REALLY love you

pa_jorg

Was it a text message? He's trying to be romantic and sexy. Cut him some slack, that *kitten*'s hard to do via an onscreen keypad. Also, send him photos of your breasts immediately.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

The.best.ever.

atjays

That's kind of an over dramatic line for barely knowing each other. either that or very immature when it comes to dating. I'm a fan of leaving your past in the past and exploiting the hell out of your time here and now. Get to know the guy, visit him again and see if that chemistry is still there. I take it that it's long distance and you have some reservations about that. If you can't find a suitable way to solve this problem then you're not going to give the guy the chance he deserves to begin with. Just enjoy the attention and see where it goes!!