February 19
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Why do i stay @SummerSkier ? Well I just learn so much from you all. You are all so nice and supportive and it makes me stay accountable and feel part of this wonderful community. Some months I do amazingly well and others not so well but the main thing is i stick with it cause if I do it makes getting back on track so much easier. Prior to joining UAC wen I went off plan it would take me weeks to get back to it but now it only takes me a day or so. Xo8
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Bill70sStrong wrote: »Over the years I have left, came back, left, came back, blah, blah, blah.
Why do I leave? Like so many areas in my life, I just lose the enthusiasm, desire, motivation, whatever, to stay on track and keep logging.
Why do I come back? Because I really miss this group when I'm away, you are always on my mind, and I'm wondering how everyone is doing! And, back I come!! I don't comment, encourage, support, as much as I'd like, but you are all very special, and I normally read every post, every day, and give a like, hug, etc.
Hugs!!
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StayFITTer wrote: »@SummerSkier Actually, I didn’t put the date in my phone. Thought I did, put apparently didn’t. If I did, I would’ve posted early and on time.I looked at my watch this morning and was like “Am I suppose to post something this week? and checked the Volunteer schedule—lo and behold, I was. And I honestly didn’t see your tag until after I came to post.
Luckily I was reflecting on Growth/Fixed mindset this morning so I decided to share my insights.
I like to be a woman of my word so if I voulnteer for something, I intend to follow through and do it. It’s just that UAC has been escaping me. It’s been a transitional time with my new job and I’ve been on my Fitbit more.
So I pray for grace and not to be kicked out the tribe. Just trying to adjust and put it all together.
We are here wen you are ready and we are very proud that u found it way back to us! U are spot on mindset is so important and it is very clear u hve a great deal im insight and self awareness. Personally the all or nothing mentality is something I can very much resonate with..A bit more balance and moderation is what I aim for these days some days this is easier than others. For me pass days is one of the issues, this all or nothing attitude meant I would eat too much food on pass days, this was causing issues with weight loss progress. Good luck on ur journey and welcome back. Xo4 -
snowshoe072 wrote: »1/3 pass days.
I don’t think I could leave this group some I could but not the UAC. This group of people have shared part of my life towards a healthier life, we share advice, life’s great moments and it’s really hard times. We are all here to learn to be better at what we do and what we want. I am not sure how this group could be better, just knowing someone out there may have an idea that will help me is a gift for health. If it isn’t broke why fix it?
Thanks @jamcnewman you held me accountable this week for my exercise I think I made it 😊 with your help.
I logged I tracked I exercised. Once again snow shoveling but good cardio.
Proud of you Kate and happy to cheer you on any time! 🥰 @snowshoe0721 -
✅ Exercise: Lots of walking and shopping today
✅ Calories
✅ Tracked
0 pass days used ( )
This one is going to take more thought. I have read Dweck´s books and used her concepts in regards to other things, but had not thought about it in this context. I do think growth mindset should be applicable to learning to maintain my weight.
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3x Yes today for a change. Exercise was minimal ... a 20 minute mile on the treadmill.
I see a lot of new groups crop up but the few times I've joined them there is very little activity. The higher level of activity within UAC is what kept me here in the beginning but now it's just become a habit in spite of my recent slippage.
I'm leaving tomorrow morning and will be gone until the end of the month so probably will be taking pass days for the duration since there will be little opportunity for exercise and all meals will be via restaurants. Next month I'm going to have to return to being strict because I've put on a couple of pounds over the last week or two. I'm not eating anymore food than normal but the lack of exercise is taking its toll. Looks like exercise is what keeps me from gaining when I'm not in a huge deficit.
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Saturday February 19
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Did I exercise for at least 20 minutes? Today's exercise was a 36 minute walk, 25 minutes of stretching, 30 minutes of lower body strength training and 2 minutes of jumping jacks
Did I stay within my calorie budget for the day? Yes
Did I keep track of everything I ate and drank? Yes
I participate in a few groups / message boards that require daily accountability. It is actually fairly time consuming but I've had to treat this lifestyle change as a hobby of sorts. If I leave it too loosey goosey and don't have a fixed plan for what I'm setting out to accomplish every day, I just won't get there. So one of my non-negotiables is making time for MFP every day. Accountability is a huge part of my personality in general so just saying I'll show up is motivating to me.
In terms of fixed vs growth mentality, this topic is coming at a time where I'm personally realizing all the other things I need to work on that don't have anything to do with weight specifically (although many of them were reasons to eat in my past, I'm sure.) I have some fixed mindset behaviors and lots of emotional triggers that I am aware of but needing to find ways of coping with or dealing aside from my past behavior of soothing through excess food.
All that to say - weight loss surely doesn't fix everything! They say that, but I really understand what that means now
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✅ Exercise - 1 hour of Jazzercise and neighborhood walk
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✅ Tracking -
Closed all my Apple watch rings today
2 Pass days used
Documenting consistency (if there is a P=instead of number its a Pass Day)
UAC: 1-2-3-4-5-P-7-P-9-10-11-12-13-14-15-16-17-18-19
I've only been back on MFP (this time) for just over 5 months. In the past, I never engaged in the community, just used the food diary and other trackers. My success both in weight loss and in mind set has been directly tied to engaging with the challenges and this group. In the past, my daily mood would be tied to the number on the scale and whether it went up, down or stayed the same. I'm continually learning from you all about how the UAC habits contribute to success of "the process". Perseverance through plateaus will eventually pay off.7 -
Did I exercise for at least 20 minutes? Yes a three mile hike
Did I stay within my calorie budget for the day? No
Did I keep track of everything I ate and drank? Yes
We’re visiting family this weekend and while I’m reporting everything and came really close I am counting today as a pass day. I am probably right on the line but we all shared Chinese food tonight and I just know it’s a losing battle to track it! Going to be a rough weekend for this but this is my first pass day
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✔︎ 20+ mins exercise (walked down to the coffee shop in the morning 20 mins, walked 45 mins in evening)
✔︎ Within calorie budget (following advice to proactively change to maintenance calories for this trip through Sun)
✔︎ Log everything
I’m planning to take a pass day for my birthday tomorrow - not so much a “free pass” as permission to enjoy two special meals with family without having to log. I want to focus on eating mindfully and being present with loved ones that I don’t get to see as often as I’d like.💗
Consistency Tracking (🔥=3 ✔︎'s, 🏴☠️=pass):
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Passes used = 1 / 3
Other habits I’m tracking this month:
✔︎ Morning meditation (it was in a closet sitting on a cooler but hey, I did what I needed to do in order to work this in while on vacation!)
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✔︎ Drink >64oz water
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2/19/2022
Exercise? No. Today, I put in some OT at work, but drove so didn't have the opportunity of the walk to/from the bus. When I got home, I took my neighbor that had the stroke to get her truck. Actually, she just rode with us to show us where to go. I drove her truck home. She's under doctor's orders NOT to drive for 90 days so my daughter and I (mostly my daughter) will be helping her out with rides to where she needs to go or picking up things for her, and the young man that lives across from her will assist with walking Valentine when he's home from work. Valentine enjoys walking with Michael because Michael's dog, Chimichanga (Chimi for short) is Valentine's best bud. Work today was just more draining than normal... maybe because I felt under pressure to get as much done in 4 hours as I could, when I had probably 10 hours of work that needed to be done. Needless to say, I didn't finish. (Plus, I can safely say that I am feeling all the bad food choices I've been making. That needs to change soon because I don't like this feeling. I know, I know... I'm the only one who can make that change so start walking the talk.)
Tracking? No. Because I'm embarrassed at what I ate. However, I'll likely go back tonight or tomorrow and put it in. But I'm still counting it as a no because it's not done yet.
Calories? Nope.9 -
Exercise - yes, 20 min. Dancing
Tracking - yes
Calories - yes
Passes: all used1 -
Feb 19
Pass Day 8 (I think)
Exercise - I did a lot of going up and down stairs for house work/organizing but no formal exercise and did not manage to leave the house for a walk
Tracking - Planned the day, then abandoned the plan
Calories - Probably over
Friday night I ate half of my takeout, and decided I wouldn't eat the leftovers. Saturday lunchtime I was really hungry and they were in the fridge, so I abandoned my pre-logged plan and ate the takeout leftovers instead. I think other than that I did pretty well with the day - and that might have been ok calories too, just not sure. It had a lot of cheese, though, so probably not.
What I love about this group is how much insight all of you have. It's also just inspiring to see other people valuing weight loss and working at it in spite of really serious life events and challenges. I don't really talk about weight loss in real life with people, and it really helps me to see that modeled.
I only joined UAC in September. When I have stepped away for a bit it's been because I've been struggling with my health and needing more sleep and just not having time for the morning check in. Otherwise I have found checking in to be so valuable.
Right now I seem to have stepped away from trying hard to get 3 checks every day (and I have my calorie goal set to maintenance, so it shouldn't be that hard). It's because I feel like I "deserve" a break. Or like I am pushing in other areas and something has to give. Or like it's a marathon, not a sprint. Hard to tell sometimes if those things are excuses or if I am doing a good job of exercising self-forgiveness for the long haul.1 -
@loopeydo2017 I hope you and your family recover with minimal side effects the best advice I can give since it hit our house at Christmas, be kind to yourself, rest and do what you can it does get better2
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~💖~ 2 / 19 /2022~ PASS day ~~ Waving Hi ~~ 🙋🏼 ~~ BLESSings Everyone ~💖~
Exercise for at least 20 minutes .................................... ✅ ... 180+ min.
Stay within my calorie budget for the day ...................... I know I went over
Keep track of everything I ate and drank ....................... I didnt Track
STEPS......... 20,350+.......... 150 = walking ......... 30 cleaning
I am taking my first Pass day since (June 2021) Getting back up & shaking it off...
Documenting My CONSISTANCY = For personal ACCOUNTABILITY & Celebration
(if there is a P=instead of number its a Pass Day)
1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10-11-12-13-14-15-16-17-18- ( P ) -
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💖 Wishing EVERYONE all the BEST & Much Success 🏆 We Got This 🏆
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Several great discussion posts today.
I’m here for the accountability and the great chat.
👍🏻 Lots of accountability with 3 x yes:👌🏻
@jjjcat
@StayFITTer 🥰 Eeyore
@Winner_in_Life
@josefinejem
@Caramel_Apple
@donna25trinity
@snowshoe072
@eokoro
@SummerSkier
@loopydo2017 Sorry that you have Covid. Hopefully it’s a mild dose.
@Bill70sStrong
@ideas2
@LazyBlondeChef We’ll miss you. Come back soon
@jamcnewman
@ashleycarole86 Agree that there is more to this journey than losing weight.
@ForLangston
@enlightenme3
@makattack220 Enjoy your birthday. Definitely worth a planned Pass Day
@Elbee1
👍🏻 being accountable no matter what👌🏻
@Geneveremfp
@jmu1965 Bravo! You owned it👌🏻@DebyS137
@Caroline_slowandsteady
@seilidhe
@Intrinsicat
Sometimes we just get knocked back by real life. But as long as we keep on keeping on, we’re doing great.
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Great openers today! I always appreciate your contribution @StayFITTer, very insightful and great food for thought today.
As for @SummerSkier's questions, aside from accountability, my main goal for staying with the group is community. We are a group of very kind, supportive, and helpful members sharing like-minded goals and commitment to a cause. Although in the past I haven't always read through each day due to time constraints or my famous disappearing act for various reasons, I am actively trying to engage more. I very much appreciate the lack of pettiness and bickering in this group (my main reason for not participating on Facebook groups). So I guess this is a great time to thank everyone for your exceptional kindness, support and time that you each of you contribute to the group! I very much appreciate everyone's contributions.
I did log today but I went over and didn't exercise.3 -
@DebyS137
Bowing to you and your first pass day since June!
While I realize this likely didn't "feel" good based on your comments, you deserve a lot of recognition for a crazy amount of dedication and consistency!
Shake it off indeed - the sum of your amazing streak of days will more than outweigh this pass day.4