Nervous and Excited.....

If you remember I had posted something about a gentleman I had met while on vacation about a couple weeks ago. Of course we have kept in contact and have spoken every single day for over a month I know that I have some kind of feelings for him, not sure what they are just yet, but feelings none the less.

Well we are meeting again this weekend and spending 4 days together, camping and floating the Coeur d’Alene River. I am so excited, I can hardly stand it. I know he is too because he keeps sending me messages counting down the days!! I really feel like this will be the weekend to determine if we truly have something worth pursuing or if we should just stay friends. I am a bit nervous but am trying not to over analyze the situation. I am planning on having a fantastic time and really enjoy his company and the other friends that will be attending. Wish me luck!!

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  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    Good luck to you. I'm not sure why you're nervous. Let's look at the possibilities.

    The weekend turns out well and you build a relationship. It either eventually fizzles leaving you disappointed or you get married and live happily until one of you die and the other is left heart broken from the loss of the love of your life.

    The weekend turns out okay but you decide to move on as friends. It is disappointing because of the anticipation but overall you are okay.

    He is a jerk and you have a horrible weekend.

    He turns out to be a homicidal maniac and you and the friends go into the woods never to be seen or heard from again.

    All of the options leave you dead, heart broken, and/or disappointed in the end. Just embrace the inevitable and relax.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    That sounds great, have fun! :flowerforyou:
  • Prahasaurus
    Prahasaurus Posts: 1,381 Member
    Good luck!

    It's also good that other friends will be there. Guys have a harder time being jerks to women once they've met her friends or family... It still might not work out but I doubt he just disappears.

    But any case, let's stay positive, and assume it works out.

    --P
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    All of the options leave you dead, heart broken, and/or disappointed in the end. Just embrace the inevitable and relax.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Have fun! :bigsmile:
  • raige123
    raige123 Posts: 352
    Have fun girl! Sounds like an amazing weekend!