Not poofing...
kit_katty
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So, I met someone online and it wasn't a good fit even though we had a good time and whatnot. It was really really difficult but I sent him a quick note saying just that and wishing him luck. Anyone else find it difficult to not just poof? Especially when the guy is a genuinely nice guy but seems a bit ... puppy like?
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kit kats and puppies go together tho!!! :laugh:
I'm like you. I can't poof. I send a text/email too, or phone if its after a few dates.
Wish guys would do the same as I hate being left in limbo.....0 -
I agree, poofing sucks. At the same time, neither of you owes the other an explanation so early on, so I get why its the easiest option sometimes.0
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Generally I don't feel bad poofing after the first date -- makes it easier if they don't try to contact me!
If they contact me, or it's been more than one date I usually just say politely I am not interested.0 -
So, I met someone online and it wasn't a good fit even though we had a good time and whatnot. It was really really difficult but I sent him a quick note saying just that and wishing him luck. Anyone else find it difficult to not just poof? Especially when the guy is a genuinely nice guy but seems a bit ... puppy like?
I think it's sort of immature and disrespectful to poof on someone if you went out with them at least one time. Unless the guy or girl was totally disrespectful or a jerk, then I think everyone deserves at least an explanation especially if they contact you. Or maybe I'm too nice..0 -
Simply breaks down to different types of people. If your a person who doesn't like to be poof'd you usually don't do it to others. An attitude of someone who wants to understand why, some sort of closure, maybe a little respect. If your a person who doesn't give a rats *kitten* about someone poofing you do the same to others. An attitude of why bother, next.. move along, you don't call me and I won't call you. There is no right or wrong answer, depends on your attitude towards the subject.0
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I'm like you. I can't poof. I send a text/email too, or phone if its after a few dates.
Wish guys would do the same as I hate being left in limbo.....I think it's sort of immature and disrespectful to poof on someone if you went out with them at least one time. Unless the guy or girl was totally disrespectful or a jerk, then I think everyone deserves at least an explanation especially if they contact you. Or maybe I'm too nice..
THIS and THIS. :drinker:0 -
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Poofing can be fun!0
