Just joining you all...in Joey's memory
IndependentMe
Posts: 182 Member
Hi,
As the one year anniversary of my brother's death from liver failure due to excessive drinking approaches -- October 19-- I was trying to find a fitting way to, I don't know, remember him, do something in his memory, not sure what my goal here is. He was 47. I just turned 47 a few weeks ago. I too sometimes gravitate to a second glass of wine (or 3d) taking in empty calories and then become a fridge raider soon after. I know when I cut my wine back to just special occasions, the weight just melts off and I feel better. Last night I had the idea that a fitting thing to do would be Sober in October. It is something he would be proud of me to accomplish, and I am sure he is happy to see me cutting back, losing weight, and becoming healthy. Then, like it was meant to be, I saw your group. So I am starting a little late, but I will visit often to support and look for support. I am going away this weekend and it will be a challenge, but I am bringing the sparkling water, and a picture of my brother. I hope you don't mind me joining so late -Andrea
As the one year anniversary of my brother's death from liver failure due to excessive drinking approaches -- October 19-- I was trying to find a fitting way to, I don't know, remember him, do something in his memory, not sure what my goal here is. He was 47. I just turned 47 a few weeks ago. I too sometimes gravitate to a second glass of wine (or 3d) taking in empty calories and then become a fridge raider soon after. I know when I cut my wine back to just special occasions, the weight just melts off and I feel better. Last night I had the idea that a fitting thing to do would be Sober in October. It is something he would be proud of me to accomplish, and I am sure he is happy to see me cutting back, losing weight, and becoming healthy. Then, like it was meant to be, I saw your group. So I am starting a little late, but I will visit often to support and look for support. I am going away this weekend and it will be a challenge, but I am bringing the sparkling water, and a picture of my brother. I hope you don't mind me joining so late -Andrea
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Welcome!! What a coincidence! Sorry about your brother! But you are doing a great thing for him. I too love wine and I am not drinking for the month of October and then some. I had wine the last 3 days because I was celebrating my husbands bday so I dont count those days! LOL!!!
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Welcome to the group! It's never too late to start, just jump in! I am sorry to hear of your loss. I have lost a few friends along the way due to drinking related issues and losing control. Some one would have never had guessed would become the alcoholic. I have to say I am not raiding the fridge as much...but these October goodies of pumpkin spice this, apple that...lol!
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I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother, I'm sure he would be proud of you for taking the challenge! Welcome to the group!0
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Welcome! Glad to have you
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