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Has your weight loss changed your dating style ?

Georgielee37
Georgielee37 Posts: 113 Member
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I have found that some of the guy's that didn't have the time for me before I lost the the weight now do. But you see I am still the same shanty irish no filter girl that I was before, so I now don't have the time for them :wink: Guess I will stay single. How are things with y'all ? I am new to the group.

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  • scubasuenc
    scubasuenc Posts: 626 Member
    That implies I have a dating style. :)

    Before I lost weight I had not dated in a long time. I just wasn't comfortable. Now I've started dating again. It is an interesting experience entering the 'scene' in my late 40s. I'm trying to build more self confidence.

    I've made it this far without a guy in my life. I'd like to meet someone, but I'm not desperate. If I meet a nice guy, great. If not, I'm happier with myself than I was before. I think that change has come as much from maturity as it has from losing weight.
  • Georgielee37
    Georgielee37 Posts: 113 Member
    You have point I know that my style has change a lot over years because of maturity ( mine not theirs ) lol . As far as my confidence, I have always been the talk to everyone girl, life of the party. So that is still the same but I also still see myself 50bl heavier than I am. I know what my scale says and what size my pants are now but my top half has not shrank so to be I still look just as big as always. I guess my confidence issues are just different but still there.

    I in no way am desperate to meet my Mr Right but I want to. I don't think that is wrong. I have no clue where he is, I hope he is not on POF because I deleted that...LMAO and I work nights on the weekends now. I guess it's up to fate......grrrrrrr

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