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  • Dorianlg
    Dorianlg Posts: 65 Member
    Hi! I'm Dorian and I'm in Chicago, IL. It feels a little strange to be posting here but I am a single girl who uses this site a lot so I should try more communities!
    I'm fairly newly single- I got out of a 2 year relationship about a month ago. Being single isn't as difficult as I thought it would be, although it's really weird to flirt with people. Four years ago I lost about a hundred pounds, but with school and a relationship, I let twenty pounds slip back on.
    I have to admit, one thing I've loved about being single is getting to eat what I want (vegetables), go to the gym any time I want, and never having to worry that my boyfriend is going to look down on me for worrying about my weight or think I'm not being fun because I won't get pizza. I can obsess about my diet and exercise as much as I want.
    It's weird how this extra 20 pounds makes me feel less confident in myself. I think it's being out of shape as much as anything. I feel like, if you can run a 10k, you can't be fat. My goal for February is to get back up to 4 miles.

    Anyways, if you would like to be friends, or talk about adventures in dating, I am certainly up for it! I fell off my bike in front of a potential beau on Saturday night! I don't think that one's calling me!
  • TBoom915
    TBoom915 Posts: 115 Member
    Hey everyone! My name is Tawndra, I'm 29, from MD (right outside of DC). I have been single for 2 years in March and I'd have to say that I've become comfortable with it. I used to hate being single but after my last relationship I took the time to really get to know and enjoy me and can say that now I am more passionate about everything I do and pursue, especially diet and exercise. I am purposely using this time to get my life together emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

    I find that now I smile more, I am more excited about life and what's to come. I know that I will successfully complete this weight loss journey and if I happen to meet a special man while on the journey I will be ready for him. While emotionally I am ready to be in a relationship again I am not rushing anything. I look forward to discussing experiences with you all. :)
  • Hi I'm Jessica! I ended a four year relationship about a year ago. I've dated some since then but mostly have been concentrating on me, my job, and school. I've learned alot about myself in the past year, who I am, and who I want to be. I was on here a while before and then stopped. I'm really glad to be back and living a healthy lifestyle! Looking forward to supporting each other. Feel free to add me :flowerforyou:
  • I, my name is Regina. Been on MFP since 1/3/12 and lost 33 lbs so far (total). And been single since last January, when I had enough of my emotionally abusive boyfriend. I am sick and tired of feeling I have to put up with unnecessary bull**** and drama because I am fat. Currently, I am losing weight due to a health scare, but the dating benefits help as well.
    What surprises me is that people are so quick to judge you by your weight. It's like this unwritten rule that your kindness, intelligence, compassion, etc. is cancelled out by your weight.

    WORD. Internet dating, in general, is better than the bar scene but it is still so bad. What cracks me up are the guys who say in their profile that they are sick of superficial women. Then I will friend them, and.....crickets. Apparently superficial women > fat women. Grrr!!
  • greybeh
    greybeh Posts: 72 Member
    I'm single... 32 years old, and living in Pittsburgh, PA. I dated a guy for 10 years, but broke it off because it became clear we didn't have the same goals in life. We'd been living with his parents. I was saving to get out... He was going in debt and buying video games. I was buying us groceries.

    I expect a lot of guys want a family and I don't. And don't want pressured into it.

    There was a guy who kept striking up conversations with me until he found out that I don't care to drink. Then, he started acting like a jerk about it.

    I am who I am. Maybe someday I'll find the guy who likes me for that.

    I used to play sports and wish I could meet guys that way, but I've got two bad knees and back pain. Maybe I'm not meant to meet anyone until people my age are going at my speed. LOL! I love nature... bird-watching, photography... I've fished before and enjoyed it. I love musicals, theater... I think I'd enjoy watching dance. I like just being out and about, and having a nice lunch.

    I was smiling at the chivalry thread. I'd like to meet a guy who is thoughtful, kind, respectful. But it seems pretty rare.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Im 32 in NYC and single as CRAP
    :smile::
  • JThomas61
    JThomas61 Posts: 892
    Hello and welcome to the new peeps, 975 strong and counting!
  • PinkStar6
    PinkStar6 Posts: 6 Member
    Hi, I'm Karen, 29 from England and very much single. Dreading reaching the big 3.0 and still being on my own :(
  • GabeRami
    GabeRami Posts: 210 Member
    Hi, I'm Juan, 39 from WI, I joined in February and I just found out about this group. Oh yeah, I've been single for about 2 years now. I have 2 children, girls, who really are my love and motivation. I want to be around as long as I can, especially to be able to walk them down the aisle when they need me to.
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    Now 1071 members!!!

    Shame we missed the 1000 mark...
  • vegamy
    vegamy Posts: 204 Member
    Hi, I'm Amy. I'm 27 and live in CT. I've been single for a little over a year (after a very long term relationship). I like running, krav maga, gaming, shooting, photography, and cake decorating. I've been on MFP for about a year and have lost almost 80 lbs during my weight loss journey! Currently training for a half marathon in June :-).
  • Nastasha915
    Nastasha915 Posts: 124 Member
    Hi everyone. First of all, thanks for making this group. It's nice to have support, when you don't have it at home. I have no one to tell me not to buy those donuts. lol. I'm 24 years old, currently living in Las Vegas, but moving to Texas in 4 weeks. I'm originally from Texas and can't wait to go back. After basic training I was in the best shape of my life, but it's been down hill from there. Not too far, I gained 12 pounds and would like to get in better shape then I was then. My ultimate goal is to run a marathon, but first I have to get off the treadmill and get outside. Since spring is here and the weather is nice, I'm looking forward to it. I'm currently going to school for accounting. I'm about 30 credits shy of my Bachelors and can't wait until i'm finished, so I can start all over with my Masters. lol. I have 8 pounds left until I reach my goal weight of 135. At that point, I'll re-evaluate if I'm happy or want to keep going. Well, It's great to meet you all and good luck.
  • annalee_1
    annalee_1 Posts: 235 Member
    Hi everyone, Love this group! I am Lee-Ann. I live in Tulsa, Oklahoma.I joined MFP 75 days ago today! woo hoo! what a great journey it's been already. I am already on my way to being the best shape of my life- I have caught the running bug. I love to do so many things I can't name them all. Most of my information is on my profile but if there is something you want to know just ask. I would hope people think I am a great support and motivator so add me if you would like. Nothing will stop me from meeting my weight loss/health goals. Lets do this together. xx:flowerforyou:
  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member
    I'm new :)

    I'm Chris. Long term single guy now. I live on the beautiful Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia. Thought I'd join this group to see what's going on with the other single on MFP.

    Hobbies:
    powerlifting
    mma
    cooking (specifically healthifying typically unhealthy stuff :smile:)
    going to the beach
    hiking
    unicycling
    watching rugby league
    travel (only been to SE Asia so far, Japan numerous times. Off to Hawaii & the US next month!)

    Interests:
    nutrition
    physiotherapy & rehab stuff
    Japanese
    Marvel comics (yeah, geek!)


    That's all I can think of at the moment :happy:
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    I'm new :)

    I'm Chris. Long term single guy now. I live on the beautiful Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia. Thought I'd join this group to see what's going on with the other single on MFP.

    Hobbies:
    powerlifting
    mma
    cooking (specifically healthifying typically unhealthy stuff :smile:)
    going to the beach
    hiking
    unicycling
    watching rugby league
    travel (only been to SE Asia so far, Japan numerous times. Off to Hawaii & the US next month!)

    Interests:
    nutrition
    physiotherapy & rehab stuff
    Japanese
    Marvel comics (yeah, geek!)


    That's all I can think of at the moment :happy:

    Dude! How could you forget frisbee! We loves the frisbee!
  • The_Carrie
    The_Carrie Posts: 23 Member
    New to the group, thought I'd introduce myself.

    I'm Carrie, from Minnesota - looking to get back into the dating world when I drop a few pounds and feel more amazing about myself than I already do!
  • SCVSarah
    SCVSarah Posts: 231 Member
    Hi, I'm Sarah from California. I've been single since November.
  • caroljae
    caroljae Posts: 10
    Just introducing myself! Carol from Arkansas - I've been in MFP for about 2 months and single for over 6 years. Feel free to add me for support! I need it and love looking at everyone's food diary for ideas....

    *cheers*
  • NomadicKris
    NomadicKris Posts: 90
    Hi Everyone :) Thought I should introduce myself.

    My name is Kris and I live on the mid north coast of NSW, Australia. I have two small kids and by the end of this month I will be officially divorced. Life doesn't always turn out how you thought it would - but at the same time it's nice to know you don't always know what the future holds.

    I am studying Community Development and love learning about the world and new ways to do things. I am fairly new to MFP but loving getting into getting fit again and encouraged by the great response my body is having to healthy eating and exercise.

    Look forward to getting to know some of you :)

    Kris.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    Hi Kris, Carol, Sarah and Carrie - Welcome :flowerforyou:

    Make yourself at home :happy:
  • brittlynn07
    brittlynn07 Posts: 382 Member
    Hi, My name is Brittany and I live in Mississippi. I've been single for over 2 years now. Feel free to add me!
  • TracyJean2012
    TracyJean2012 Posts: 517 Member
    Hi , I'm Tracy and I just joined this group! Hope its still open to new members?
  • amy_letsgo
    amy_letsgo Posts: 42 Member
    Hello!! My name is Amy I am a 38 single mother - I'm from Pittsburgh! Today was my 25th day on MFP! I lost 12 lbs so far! Yay!!! Always looking for new friends and support through this weight loss journey!! Add me !
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    Hi Amy, Tracy and Brittany. Welcome, jump right in :flowerforyou:
  • dynamicwon
    dynamicwon Posts: 175 Member
    Hello Im 49, single and ready to mingle my pics are on my profile page. I live in Catonsville Maryland. I'm here to maintain my current weight which is not always easy to do. My favorite workouts are spinning and boot camp classes.
  • autumnk921
    autumnk921 Posts: 1,374 Member
    Hi, I am Autumn...I am 5'2" and 37yrs old....I am a Single mom to a 3yr old little boy...His father passed away a year ago & I have been single for about 2yrs now....I lived in Louisville, KY most of my life but last year my son & I moved to LaGrange, KY for a change of scenery & to start over...I have been struggling with my weight for about 2yrs now & want to change myself for the better. I am trying to lose about 30lbs more right now & I am also lifting weights & that is my new passion. I am glad to have found this group to get to meet people that I have something in common with. Some of my best friends are here on MFP, this is a great site & if it weren't for all of the support I get on here I wouldn't have made it this far...I would love to find some more MFP friends from this group as well!! :heart:
  • Starzy696
    Starzy696 Posts: 133 Member
    Hi Everyone,

    I am Julie (Jul for short). Recently single and trying to just stay fit and in shape. I am 5'-6" and 30 years old. Basically, I am not your typical female (you can probably see from my profile pic) and love riding and racing dirt bikes and love playing softball and volleyball. I live in Massachusetts, but might be relocating to Connecticut if I get a new job I have applied for. Really like this site and just need to keep motivated to actually use it all the time.
  • sazzyp1973
    sazzyp1973 Posts: 517 Member
    Hello to all,

    I am Sara, and I am a short red head! Single for about six months but still on good (ish) terms with the ex!
    I am on MFP because a couple of years ago I go fit and lost a load of weight and I was chuffed. Like many, I have put some of it back on and that happened when I stopped logging the food. Now I need to get back to logging and some sensible exercise and hopefully slowly and safely I will lose the weight again.

    Feel free to add me if you want to give and receive support through this journey!

    All the best everyone
  • saintspoon
    saintspoon Posts: 242 Member
    Hi All!!

    My name is Veronica & I'm 28 & single!

    i live in Calgary, Ab, Canada but i find that the male attention & support I get online are super helpful & fullfilling :bigsmile:

    I cherish & love the support of my female friends but when you've been struggling with your weight your whole life it really means something special to have a male tell you look beautiful :wink:

    of course if you're in my area or willing to travel i would also love to hear from you :flowerforyou:
  • ArmandoG28
    ArmandoG28 Posts: 283 Member
    hello mfp friends. my name is Armando . 32 single im 6'7 299 down from 435 +- . any ways nice to meet you all . feel free add me . im friendly and dont bite .