social drinker!!!

jennilovesryan
jennilovesryan Posts: 124
edited October 2024 in Social Groups
it is so hard to say no to drinking when i'm around other people doing it. does anyone have any tricks or motivations for this? especially when it's my husband or family! i just wanna party too! ;)

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  • kerry0521
    kerry0521 Posts: 46 Member
    I have the same problem! Only with wine though...if other people are having mixed drinks etc. I can resist. But so hard with wine. I am trying to improve on this myself, but I know when I cut way back before it did get easier after awhile. Early on, I avoided wine related gatherings as much as possible. I am going to do that again....
  • Change_Agent
    Change_Agent Posts: 98 Member
    Hi - That is a time that calls for mucho strength. I always try to have cold herbal teas and/or interesting non-alcoholic things to drink (chai tea, etc.) in the house when people come over so that anyone who doesn't want to drink alcohol still has some more festive options but - whaddya know! - I haven't really tried doing this myself. I usually try to alternate at those times - one glass of wine (like kmccarv I don't really care about other drinks) and then one glass of tea or whatever. Next time I will go for the non-alcoholic option only in solidarity with you.
  • That is a hard one! My husband is in a band and every Sunday night the come over to the house with a ton of wine! All my friends drink too!! I have only gone one day so far with out wine...The diet I am on is completely sugar free, so wine would ruin the whole thing. I guess I just have to focus on how good i will feel after I detox!
  • Change_Agent
    Change_Agent Posts: 98 Member
    Those rock and rollers! We have lots of drinking pals too - though only some with talents like that - and it's hard to be around them and not drink. The clear feeling is worth it though, I am finding. Feels really good. Good luck.
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