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Finally at that point.

lyssamichelle
lyssamichelle Posts: 1,307 Member
edited November 2024 in Social Groups
I've never post in this group before, figured it's a good time.
Everyone I know is either married or in a serious relationship.
I'm finally at that point where I'm ready to move on, get out in the world & find someone.
I am only 19, but your first love can do a number on you.
I've lost only 20lbs since the start of my weight loss journey, 8 since I've joined this.
Something, during that time, went off in my mind.
No one will be like him, no amount of work will make him come back to you. He's your best friend, why ruin it.
I'm done trying to be his perfect girl(even if I never wanted to admit it, I always was in his eyes) I'm ready to be the best me I can be.
I'm done comparing every guy I meet to him, there's always someone better after all.
I am ready to admit it.
I'm single. I'm lonely. & I'M PROUD. (:
As silly as that sounds, lol.
It is very nice to meet all you other single people (:

Replies

  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    you have a good attitude! focus on yourself and the rest will come with it!
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    I've never post in this group before, figured it's a good time.
    Everyone I know is either married or in a serious relationship.
    I'm finally at that point where I'm ready to move on, get out in the world & find someone.
    I am only 19, but your first love can do a number on you.
    I've lost only 20lbs since the start of my weight loss journey, 8 since I've joined this.
    Something, during that time, went off in my mind.
    No one will be like him, no amount of work will make him come back to you. He's your best friend, why ruin it.
    I'm done trying to be his perfect girl(even if I never wanted to admit it, I always was in his eyes) I'm ready to be the best me I can be.
    I'm done comparing every guy I meet to him, there's always someone better after all.
    I am ready to admit it.
    I'm single. I'm lonely. & I'M PROUD. (:
    As silly as that sounds, lol.
    It is very nice to meet all you other single people (:

    I know the feeling of having significant parts of your social circle married or in relationships when you are single. It makes you feel like a worthless piece of ****.

    Look hot, and men will flock to you. Looks draw men in, but what keeps them is around is your personality, your disposition, the way you approach life. Be easy going, fun to be around, etc and it will all work out.
  • lyssamichelle
    lyssamichelle Posts: 1,307 Member
    I know the feeling of having significant parts of your social circle married or in relationships when you are single. It makes you feel like a worthless piece of ****.

    Look hot, and men will flock to you. Looks draw men in, but what keeps them is around is your personality, your disposition, the way you approach life. Be easy going, fun to be around, etc and it will all work out.
    I like to think I do look hot, lmao.
    Good thing I'm all those things. (:
  • Wait, your friends are married?
  • lyssamichelle
    lyssamichelle Posts: 1,307 Member
    Wait, your friends are married?
    A few are, the rest are in relationships.. No one seems to be single around here.
  • Wait, your friends are married?
    A few are, the rest are in relationships.. No one seems to be single around here.

    I know the feeling...it does get old. How do you go about meeting people? Maybe if you meet some other friends who are also single, you won't have to feel like the odd one out so much. I'm sure you're not the only one who is single :flowerforyou:
  • lyssamichelle
    lyssamichelle Posts: 1,307 Member
    Wait, your friends are married?
    A few are, the rest are in relationships.. No one seems to be single around here.

    I know the feeling...it does get old. How do you go about meeting people? Maybe if you meet some other friends who are also single, you won't have to feel like the odd one out so much. I'm sure you're not the only one who is single :flowerforyou:
    I really don't have a way to meet people.. I'm stuck with the people I know. I never even see them, ha.
    I obviously don't care anymore.
  • im_blessed
    im_blessed Posts: 74 Member
    totally relate to this, don't think im finally at that point yet. still do a lot of comparing to other guys but hopefully i'll get there soon too.
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