whats you take??

DWK28

Does anyone else notice it is easier to stay motivated and focused when you have a crush or are seeing someone??

AnnaPixie

for sure :bigsmile:

lelliebugh

I'm on the fence about this. I think it's a distraction when I'm with someone. I get comfortable, excited, and happy then slack off. Lol being single helps me stay on track.

DMZ_1

Yes and no. It depends on how comfortable the relationship is.

Many long term marrieds put on a lot of weight because they are off the market so to speak and don't need to impress anyone new. Remember that it is easier to keep someone than forge a new relationship.

When you first start to see someone and things are going well, keeping that person happy can be a fitness motivator.

Comfort is good, too much comfort, not so good.

christine24t

I think when you have a crush yes. When you get comfortable no.

emilysheafit

I think its easier to stay motiviated when you have a crush, even if your comfortable it's earier also!

DWK28

I think when you have a crush yes. When you get comfortable no.

I agree.....just notice last year when I falling for someone...I got in ridiculous shape...hardly cheated and never missed a workout..

La_Amazona

i hate crushes, they stress me out... so i can go either way. i'll be very motivated (when i'm happy stressed) or not very motivated (anxiety stress)..

i hate crushes.

emilysheafit

i hate crushes, they stress me out... so i can go either way. i'll be very motivated (when i'm happy stressed) or not very motivated (anxiety stress)..

i hate crushes.

Agree 100%

mznisaelaine

I think that when your into someone you definitely are more motivated...

But I think I'm just motivated to lose weight and work on getting healthy and in shape because I finally want someone to notice me. It's been 3 years since someone actually tried to talk to me and during that time I was in a relationship. Now... Not so much.

lacroyx

Does anyone else notice it is easier to stay motivated and focused when you have a crush or are seeing someone??

it depends. usually for me no.

teagin2002

I think it has to do with loving yourself. If you love yourself and take care of your self, then hopefully they will feel the same way for you too.

I have been married for 4 years now, and hubby loved me the same way before I gained, after I gained and then after I lost it too.
But this makes sense to me :flowerforyou:

pjrme1956

What is a crush? It has been a long time. <smile> I get distracted with relationships and struggle to stay on track.
Unless that person is on the same page

pjrme1956

Yey must have a great Husband and you must be a wonderful wife.

pammbroo

You should definitely want to stay motivated for your own reasons, however, the possibility of another human seeing you naked tends to help one stay focused.