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Why do guys ghost???

lind3400
lind3400 Posts: 557 Member
edited November 2024 in Social Groups
I'm not a overly clingy girl, I don't doodle a guys names in my notebook for smiling at me, I don't even obsess over a guy I had sex with once who never called me again....but then this guy will start constantly txting me and flirting with me and asking me to hang out and fool around....and then you disappear again...until you want more....why do you give me the impression you like me than blow me off?? What are you so afraid of??

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  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I call them poofers.. and they can kiss my *kitten*!!!!
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    I'm not a overly clingy girl
    - Scared of appearing as an overly clingy man
    - Just not that into you, but finds you OK and perhaps still up for some fun (and maybe more)
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Sad to say he wants sex and that is it.
  • JThomas61
    JThomas61 Posts: 892
    Sounds like a typical booty call situation
  • Quasita
    Quasita Posts: 1,530 Member
    In my head, ghost means you were in a relationship and instead of breaking up with you, he disappears...

    I second the fact that this sounds like you're a booty call and if you want it to stop, you've got to be blunt and say put up or shut up. As long as you are receptive to it, it'll keep happening.
  • melg126
    melg126 Posts: 378
    I agree with the other posters... if you don't want to be treated that way you just need to end it.
  • mnwalkingqueen
    mnwalkingqueen Posts: 1,299 Member
    Sounds like a typical booty call situation

    Totally agree !!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Senior year of high school, my old best friend dated a guy for about a month before he ghosted on her. Wouldn't answer his phone, didn't come to the door at his house, nothing. Then one day he came back, saying he was "scared." Bulls**t. I call that a dumbass. (can you tell i'm pissed today lol?) Anyway, we're seniors in college and they're still dating. I'm no longer great friends with my old best friend because of it.
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I don't ghost, but I do have a job that requires me to travel and/or focus on the work for periods of time.

    But I have known my friends to do this. Usually, it is because they were spooked by the speed things were happening.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I don't ghost, but I do have a job that requires me to travel and/or focus on the work for periods of time.

    And hopefully you tell the girl the truth rather than just not calling!! Ghosting is different than being unavailable!
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I don't ghost, but I do have a job that requires me to travel and/or focus on the work for periods of time.

    And hopefully you tell the girl the truth rather than just not calling!! Ghosting is different than being unavailable!

    Yes, I do. Usually telling them early on that I'm hard to date and not in a hurry.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I don't ghost, but I do have a job that requires me to travel and/or focus on the work for periods of time.

    And hopefully you tell the girl the truth rather than just not calling!! Ghosting is different than being unavailable!

    Yes, I do. Usually telling them early on that I'm hard to date and not in a hurry.

    Good!!!!
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