When it rains it pours

Showgirlbody
Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
edited November 10 in Social Groups
Seriously, there are spurts of absolutely no romantic interest in me, or many all at once. It is so weird. I've been lamenting that there has been no interest coming my way, internet or otherwise. Then all of a sudden this week I am popular. And guys that I have met or gone out with in the past are texting out of the blue after intermittent poofing. I know they can't smell my pheromones through the phone or computer. It's just strange. I'd prefer to get to know one at a time, but it doesn't work that way. All or nothing it seems. lol

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  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    :smile: Men are like buses. You wait ages for one and then four come along at once.
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    It is true...........I always say "feast or famine"............it is so strange!
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    It often works the same for us. But with men, the more attention we get, the more we want.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    I wasn't complaining! :laugh:
  • mymelody_78
    mymelody_78 Posts: 657 Member
    Ugh. I know what you mean!
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    You had me at intermittent poofing.
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    that happens all the time to me too. Annoying but whatever
  • Same thing happens to me. Or whenever you give up on one person, you end up with that person interested in you again plus 4 more. Keeps a busy girl even more busy,
  • pammbroo
    pammbroo Posts: 550 Member
    Same here. I have a few that I refer to as the "wheels on my bus". Don't hear from anyone for awhile then all of the sudden, within a week's time, I hear from each of my "wheels". Its like they talk to each other or something! And it happens on a pretty regular basis. So funny. But, in the end, its all chatter...no dates. Why bother? lol
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    I have no idea why things work out that way. Can be irritating.
  • Showgirlbody
    Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
    Yeah, I always heard from people that were single and then get involved with someone that all of a sudden there is renewed interest in them and they get hit on a lot. You wonder where they were before. But this is crazy. And everyone does want to go on a date, like right now. And I have texts and phone calls and can't keep straight what I talked about with whom. I don't have enough information to just drop the others and keep one. I just have to see how it plays out. And of course it's at a time where I'm about to sell my house and probably move out of this area, still in Socal, but not immediate vicinity which is important here. The laws of the universe or attraction or something. I know the past guys that I have met are flakes and just bored or have nobody else to fall back on, but wow. I was about to delete my profile because nothing was happening and now I'm not getting inundated exactly but a few at a time who are actually somewhat my type....crazy crazy
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Seriously, there are spurts of absolutely no romantic interest in me, or many all at once. It is so weird. I've been lamenting that there has been no interest coming my way, internet or otherwise. Then all of a sudden this week I am popular. And guys that I have met or gone out with in the past are texting out of the blue after intermittent poofing. I know they can't smell my pheromones through the phone or computer. It's just strange. I'd prefer to get to know one at a time, but it doesn't work that way. All or nothing it seems. lol

    enjoy it while you can cos you never know when the next famine will happen :love:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    "it's raining men!"
  • Showgirlbody
    Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
    Well, one down. He is a little unbalanced I think. He was freaking because I wasn't returning texts or calls promptly. Said that he can't deal with the fact that he likes me more than it appears I like him. Um, okay. Got broke up with before even meeting. lol There were big flags anyway, boy has problems.
  • realrayne10
    realrayne10 Posts: 388 Member
    The same thing happens to me except none of my guys are single and should just leave me alone! :mad:
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