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lelliebugh
lelliebugh Posts: 340 Member
edited November 2024 in Social Groups
I'm over dating. Lol I Have Deleted/hidden any profiles. I have told the guy I was seeing I am just not happy with me so I can not be happy with anyone else. I just want to be selfish and work on me, myself, and I. Anyone else feel this way lately?!

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  • Meghan0116
    Meghan0116 Posts: 1,268 Member
    Yes. But I figure I can work on me while having hopefully fun dates. Although, dating pretty much blows. lol How did the guy take it?
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    Yes! I go back and forth lol.

    I have been working on me for a while as far as other things go .. now I am tackling the physical part. But I am ready to stick my toes in the water and see how it is.. just my toes tho! lol .. Don't know how far I am ready to jump in just yet.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I am the queen of hiding/ unhiding. Sometimes I just want to be all about ME so I focus on ME and then other times I want to get out and meet guys.

    Do what you want!
  • JimieLou
    JimieLou Posts: 273 Member
    I was over dating too. Pretty much for the same reasons you are. If I can't love or be happy with myself than I can't love or be happy with someone else. I took a year off the dating scene. I was completely selfish and focused only on myself, both physically and mentally. Now, a year and 85 pounds later, I finally felt strong enough/brave enough to let someone in...and I'm so glad I did.
    I'm definately not one to give any "expert" advice, but if you feel like you need to focus on you, then DO IT! It will work out for you in th end.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Nah, I'm happy with myself and would love to share my life with someone. However, I'm always hiding my profile because I get fed up meeting weirdo's/pervs/confirmed bachelors/nutters/players/uninteresting men/etc etc etc

    There is only so much disappointment I can take before I 'give up'. And then I get rejeuvenated and try again....*sigh
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Yes! I go back and forth lol.

    I have been working on me for a while as far as other things go .. now I am tackling the physical part. But I am ready to stick my toes in the water and see how it is.. just my toes tho! lol .. Don't know how far I am ready to jump in just yet.

    This is exactly how I feel too!
  • Z_I_L_L_A
    Z_I_L_L_A Posts: 2,399 Member
    Been doing that for a while, 3 years I think. I'm starting to wonder how much longer I need to work on me. :laugh:
  • mnwalkingqueen
    mnwalkingqueen Posts: 1,299 Member
    Nah, I'm happy with myself and would love to share my life with someone. However, I'm always hiding my profile because I get fed up meeting weirdo's/pervs/confirmed bachelors/nutters/players/uninteresting men/etc etc etc

    There is only so much disappointment I can take before I 'give up'. And then I get rejeuvenated and try again....*sigh

    I agree with you there are certain dating sites that I don't even attempt anymore because in my state MN they have a rep for producing booty calls only.
  • lelliebugh
    lelliebugh Posts: 340 Member
    I think part of my issues are I like being single. Guys seem to fall quick for me and want a relationship and I just wanna date. No that doesn't mean sleep around just enjoy things with a companion. The guys I've been seeing don't seem to grasp that. The guy I told said " Can we at least hook-up?" I was like you've gotta be kidding. Lol

    Ps: should be lessons learned stupid phone
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