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sophiebuckler
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Hi all,
Just wanted to say hello to all the members of this group and introduce myself. I'm Sophie and I had my first baby last October. She would be 5 months old now. We lost her at 10 days old after a normal pregnancy. Everyday is a challenge and the hardest part for me is that everybody expects you to continue life as normal and they don't mention Daisy anymore - partly because of a fear of upsetting me I suppose but I love to talk about her!
There is a poem that really sums up the feelings after losing a baby or child....
I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.
Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they don't hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.
Love to all members of this group - our loved ones aren't forgotten and live on through us x
Just wanted to say hello to all the members of this group and introduce myself. I'm Sophie and I had my first baby last October. She would be 5 months old now. We lost her at 10 days old after a normal pregnancy. Everyday is a challenge and the hardest part for me is that everybody expects you to continue life as normal and they don't mention Daisy anymore - partly because of a fear of upsetting me I suppose but I love to talk about her!
There is a poem that really sums up the feelings after losing a baby or child....
I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.
Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they don't hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.
Love to all members of this group - our loved ones aren't forgotten and live on through us x
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