Height

acasey0123
acasey0123 Posts: 640 Member
edited November 2024 in Social Groups
Ladies: would you date someone that was shorter than you? Guys would you date someone who is taller than you? I'm about 5 7- 5 8 and Im curious if I would even date a guy who is like 5 8. Im not saying like signficantly shorter but just around the same height or within a couple of inches.

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  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    Would definitely date a girl who is taller than me, by an 1/2 inch perhaps an inch or so, not so much more.
    Women are normally the ones making all the fuss about this.

    I've got large shoulders so I guess that kinda compensates when the girl is about my size or slightly taller than me (normally happens when she wears heels).
  • RoboLikes
    RoboLikes Posts: 519 Member
    I am 6ft tall and have been with men who are shorter than me or are my height. I would like someone taller, but generally whatever his height is, it doesn't really bother me.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    Ladies: would you date someone that was shorter than you?

    Sure, if he were awesome... though I do favor really tall guys, it's more about how he makes me feel
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    Twice I've asked out women who were over 6'2" (one was 6'5"). Both said no, they wanted men taller than them. I'll probably end up trying one more time and then figure that taller than me rule is true for the majority of women, even those who are going to be dealing with the outliers of men.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    I have dated men a tad shorter than me (I am 5'6"), my height and taller than me. I don't have a preference on height. I like them all.
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    I'm 5'1" so I have only dated taller. If a man was shorter then me I would feel like I was dating my son.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    I'm 5'1" so I have only dated taller. If a man was shorter then me I would feel like I was dating my son.


    That would be awkward!!! LOL
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Kind of impossible to find a guy shorter than me, I'm 4.11 :laugh:
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    guy here. yep I would.
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    Yes, I would be interested in a woman taller than I am. Although I am taller than most women, there are times when women are taller than I am.

    I generally go for women shorter than I am because I don't want to fight the height battle. Women do tend to want taller men.
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    I do prefer the men to be taller...
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    <-spoiled
  • lelliebugh
    lelliebugh Posts: 340 Member
    I am 5'9 and I prefer taller. I have dated shorter, but I had a little bit of a hang up because I could not wear heels and feel comfortable. He was 5'7.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    <-spoiled

    There is just something about tall men like you that make us swoon (well I can't speak for all women, but it makes me swoon)...having a feeling of being protected when you hug us is a good thing.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    Since I am only 5'5 usually if a guy is shorter then me they tend to have "Short man syndrome"aka Napoleon complex so I prefer guys taller then me.
  • Lizi19
    Lizi19 Posts: 180 Member
    I'm dating someone shorter than me(5'6) and I haven't detected a Napoleon complex yet ;) I generally like taller guys, so I'm still getting used to it and haven't worn heels or boots yet. I don't wear heels that often anyway, but I'm a sucker for boots with heels.
  • Nerple
    Nerple Posts: 1,291 Member
    Like most every other attribute people can't control, I couldn't care less abut height.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I would.. but he'd have to be awesome in other ways for me to stoop down that low (pun intended haha).

    I dated a guy 2 inches shorter than me. The only time I really cared was when I'd pick out the shoes I was going to wear on our dates. I always chose my flats. :cry:
  • duharvalgt
    duharvalgt Posts: 319 Member
    I might date someone taller than me (6,1) although we'd look a little strange togethor if she was wearing heels.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I wouldn`t care if she was taller...it is the person.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    .having a feeling of being protected when you hug us is a good thing.

    yes!!

    And feeling like I'm hugging my son is NOT a good thing. So if he's shorter than me, well, he's gonna have to at least be broader, lol!
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    I am 5'4" and in my heels I am just under 6', if it didn't bother him it wouldn't bother me and I :heart: my heels so me not wearing heels would be a deal breaker :tongue:
  • hypallage
    hypallage Posts: 624 Member
    I do prefer taller guys - I'm 5'4 but like guys who are over 6ft.
    That said, I have dated guys shorter than that, it is about the person in the end.
  • craigers13
    craigers13 Posts: 241 Member
    I'm 6'6" so I'm not sure if I would date a girl taller than me.......although, think of the giant offspring we could produce lol
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I'm 6'6" so I'm not sure if I would date a girl taller than me.......although, think of the giant offspring we could produce lol

    a nice basketball team
  • skarr28
    skarr28 Posts: 98
    I'm 5'9-ish, I've dated shorter men, the shortest being 5'7. I can be pretty tough, so I guess you can say if Im able to kick his *kitten* :laugh: or if I give him a playful pat on the back and he goes flying, well, then, that just won`t get me all hot and bothered for him, :laugh:

    But, really, I don`t mind a little difference in height. I`ve no preference for taller men so much as a preference for a man who can make me feel safe and well taken care of (rare) when we go out for the evening.



    P.S. Case in point, I dated a tall but skinny guy last year, we lived in a town that`s known for it`s crazy nights. I felt like I had to be the one to act as protector. Not hot. :ohwell:
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