Random "bonus points"

kimi131
kimi131 Posts: 1,058 Member
edited November 12 in Social Groups
I was talking to the guy I'm dating (does three dates count as "dating"? lol) when I discovered that he is also an Apple/Mac person. He said, "I'll probably never own another PC." That is exactly the way I feel about it and so I decided that he had just moved up a couple of notches in my book. (He was in need of some bonus points anyway since he can't dance and that is definitely some negative points :laugh: ).

I've always joked that the guy I end up with will have to be an Apple fan. Okay, okay, I would overlook it if he wasn't, but I do really like the fact that this guy is an Apple fan. I know it probably makes no sense if you're not an Apple fan, but just understand we Apple users are very loyal to our brand :laugh: .

I'm just curious, what little random things might earn someone 'bonus points' for you?
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  • jamszy
    jamszy Posts: 123 Member
    She is also a musician, or she beats me at music trivia!

    In regards to your post, as an Apple/Mac user, I completely get it and it's awesome! :glasses:
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
    I was talking to the guy I'm dating (does three dates count as "dating"? lol) when I discovered that he is also an Apple/Mac person. He said, "I'll probably never own another PC." That is exactly the way I feel about it and so I decided that he had just moved up a couple of notches in my book. (He was in need of some bonus points anyway since he can't dance and that is definitely some negative points :laugh: ).

    I've always joked that the guy I end up with will have to be an Apple fan. Okay, okay, I would overlook it if he wasn't, but I do really like the fact that this guy is an Apple fan. I know it probably makes no sense if you're not an Apple fan, but just understand we Apple users are very loyal to our brand :laugh: .

    I'm just curious, what little random things might earn someone 'bonus points' for you?

    i'm curious...im a dancer.....but why does he have to be an "apple fan"? what does that mean exactly?
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    1) Star Wars fan

    2) hates Starbucks. I'm not much of a sports guy. I like only 3, soccer/futbol, baseball and basketball. Being from the Seattle I don't care for the CEO or the brand after he sold the Seattle Supersonics to the Benett guy and he moved the team to OKC.

    3) doesn't like to dance :laugh: yah I'm horrible at it
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    Fan of the game super mario or mario kart. :laugh:
    So many of those though...
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    2) hates Starbucks. I'm not much of a sports guy. I like only 3, soccer/futbol, baseball and basketball. Being from the Seattle I don't care for the CEO or the brand after he sold the Seattle Supersonics to the Benett guy and he moved the team to OKC.

    Agree that the Sonics should still be in Seattle. That whole situation was a disaster. OKC should have the Hornets.

    The Seattle sports scene isn't that great with the Mariners & Seahawks.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    ok, bonus points if he:

    * likes driving (cos I don't much, especially long distances)

    * likes cooking (cos I dont much, especially every day...lol)

    * likes playing with feet (cos I Loooooooooove my feet being tickled )

    :bigsmile:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    He must love dogs, specifically MY dog Lucy! The real truth is that SHE must love HIM though...I trust her instintcs about people more than my own sometimes.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    - gets that I hate movies like Harry Potter, Star Wars, etc and doesn't make fun of me like everyone else!
  • krissypea79
    krissypea79 Posts: 362 Member
    If he likes country music!!! Major points! Actually, I'm having a hard time not making it a complete deal-breaker if he doesn't, hehe :smile: Gotta pick your battles I suppose!
  • krissypea79
    krissypea79 Posts: 362 Member
    He must love dogs, specifically MY dog Lucy! The real truth is that SHE must love HIM though...I trust her instintcs about people more than my own sometimes.

    YUP! My little Boston Terrier, Oliver, who wouldn't hurt a fly, nipped at a guy the first time he came to my house. It was the first time he'd done that to anyone...the guy turned out to be a real d-bag...dogs know the truth!!! :smile:
  • lelliebugh
    lelliebugh Posts: 340 Member
    Bonus points if he loves Hockey and doesnt like or have cats.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    *Being a coffee drinker at the very least, if not a lover of it like I am.

    *A man that understands physical labor and has no problem picking up a shovel or a hammer.

    *I love muscle cars, the smell of gasoline and oil, and busting my knuckles working on things. I love it when a man gets this but also knows his way around a shop.

    *Huge plus in his favor is not being a gaming addict. There's too much real world out there to enjoy!!

    These reasons may be why I am so attracted to older men. Unfortunately, men my age tend to be far too plugged in for my tastes and don't have the stance/presence that older men have.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    Some random "bonus points" for me are:

    - if they are a musician (specifically if they can play the piano, guitar, and/or drums)
    - loves the beach
    - would go hiking or play outdoor sports and activities
    - play video games and boardgames
    - likes to watch movies
    - likes museums, broadway shows, plays etc.
    - likes theme parks
    - likes to read "just because"
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    Gamer for sure. (Not sure if this is just bonus points. It may be mandatory at this point.)
    Foodie.
    Fitness lover.
    Clean freak! Oooo this makes me so happy.
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    Bonus points if he's more than just a passing fan of Bon Jovi or Bruce Springsteen. :heart:
  • solman66
    solman66 Posts: 175 Member
    Bonus points if she's an apple hater...
    just kidding haha


    If she doesn't use facebook that's a plus in my book.
    Bonus for being a fan of any of the following: Hockey, Rush, or Monty Python.


    Also if she actually enjoys the movie Kung Pow I think I'd fall instantly in love.
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    A couple of mine would be:

    - plays video games and enjoys RPGs
    - likes to read/expand knowledge
    - likes to workout/health conscious
    - a little nerdy, maybe
    - Linux user
    - enjoys football
  • kimi131
    kimi131 Posts: 1,058 Member
    i'm curious...im a dancer.....but why does he have to be an "apple fan"? what does that mean exactly?

    Means uses an Apple computer or Apple/Mac products verses a Windows-based computer. It's not an absolute must, but it is something I like. Call it severe brand loyalty, lol.
  • kimi131
    kimi131 Posts: 1,058 Member
    * likes driving (cos I don't much, especially long distances)

    Me too! I hate driving and I pretty much assume the guy is gonna drive when we're together.

    I should also add:
    -opens car doors. In my experience, most guys open doors, but not all open car doors. (really just when I get in, getting out feels over the top).
    -is the same church denomination I am
  • JGT2004
    JGT2004 Posts: 231 Member
    Bonus points:

    - if he knows who Three Dog Night is (I like a lot of types of music)
    - doesn't have kids (has kind of become a deal breaker)
    - likes to do outdoor stuff
    - handyman (major points!)(not necessary for him to be Mr. Fixit just willing to try)
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    - Valid Passport
    - Football fan

    I have a few more, but I'm not sharing those on a forum.
  • _Kitten_Kate
    _Kitten_Kate Posts: 520 Member
    - Valid Passport
    - Football fan

    I have a few more, but I'm not sharing those on a forum.

    50/50...damn it. ;)
  • Katefab26
    Katefab26 Posts: 865
    She is also a musician, or she beats me at music trivia!

    What kind of musician though? I mean, there are quite a few genres out there!!
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    Definate bonus points for a football lover .. HUGE ups if you are a Steeler fan. I will ditch you if you are a Ravens fan however.

    Hockey lover.
    Love guys that wear their baseball hats backwards.. so very sexy.
    if you cook for me, I may marry you.
  • Nerple
    Nerple Posts: 1,291 Member
    Ones I can think of:

    - Loves Hockey, Soccer, Baseball, and Lacrosse (Being a Yankees or Habs fan could be a dealbreaker though)
    - Does not own an Apple Desktop/Laptop (probably just as severe a brand loyalist as the Original Poster in the opposite direction despite owning an iphone and Ipod touch)
    - Always goes Coke over Pepsi (Even more radical of a brand loaylist when it comes to Coke/Pepsi)
    - Not a Vegetarian (Vegan is a complete deal breaker)
    - Not a Hippy
    - Thinks "All Inclusive Resort" is a blasphemous term
    - Likes to dance (being good is irrelevant as I am awful)
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    hates organized religion...

    be still my beating heart
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    Sports fan - Baseball is a must but must also like different types of sports including NASCAR (Yankee, Cowboys, and Laker fans are deal breakers though)
    Runner - I would like someone that could also be my running partner
    Not a video game player (I love board games but don't like sitting in front of a computer/tv playing games)
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    soccer, guys that speak spanish :laugh: (or at least understand it), and guys who can dance!
  • Here's a few....

    Romantic and emotionally expressive :blushing:
    Self Employeed Entrepenure type
    Intelligent but not pretentious
    Articualate without stealing the show
    Witty but not obnoxious :wink:
    Playful but not childish
    Health Conscious & athletic but not obssessed with self or sports
    Loves to travel and stay home
    Has a English, Italian or Austrailian accent :love:
    Has a full head of curly hair
    Likes sopntinaety but isnt overly impulsive
    Someone who appreciates quality entertainment like Live Theater, the Ballet & the Symphony
    History/Geography buff
    Family Oriented, Patriotic, Conservative and has a true Love for God:heart:
  • castadiva
    castadiva Posts: 2,016 Member
    Ability to dance properly ie. with a partner, in some traditional or latin style is a big 'plus' in my book.
    Speaks 'quote' ie. understands/can quip back when I quote a play/film/lyric/famous person
    Not afraid of a little public whimsy/silliness.

    Sometimes though, the best 'bonus' points are the things you never thought to hope for.
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