My First Crush
AllanMisner
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So, I was 15 and met a girl. She was sweet, pretty, nice, everything a 15 year old could want, but she was visiting her grand mother and lived in another state. We were penpals for over two years. By all accounts, I'd say she was the first girl really crushed on.
Here I am, 31 years later, meeting her for drinks tomorrow. From Facebook pics, she's OMG hot! And, unfortunately married.
How is it I feel exactly like I did when I was 15? I am so nervous, which is completely unlike me.
Here I am, 31 years later, meeting her for drinks tomorrow. From Facebook pics, she's OMG hot! And, unfortunately married.
How is it I feel exactly like I did when I was 15? I am so nervous, which is completely unlike me.
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Uh oh!0
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Cute! Let us know how it goes!0
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She's married??? Boo!!!!!!
But I like crushes.... you know me. :blushing:0 -
Good story. Wish it had a better outcome. But you could write the next chapter tomorrow night.0
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And will you be meeting her Hubby too? Lol.... Hang in there...and do keep us posted! :happy:0
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That's amazing. How exciting! I hope you have a great time :flowerforyou:0
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Nice man! :flowerforyou:0
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That's really sweet. And what a shame she's married, but great to catch up again :bigsmile:
I also got contacted by my first crush through Friends Reunited a few years back. Also the first boy I ever kissed
He has been working in Uganda for 20 years and still lived there. Divorced. We communicated for months (email, text, phone, skype) and out of the blue he declared his undying love for me!! Bit strange when he hadn't seen me for 30 years, but still, I guess he was lonely. Anyway, long story short,. he planned to come to England to visit me, revisit the town he grew up in, schools etc, and all of a sudden he stopped ringing!! :laugh:
It must be me!! :laugh:
Anyway, I guess I would have been nervous too had it materialised. Its only natural. Have a great time reminiscing. :flowerforyou:0 -
Fun!! Have a great time
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Have fun!!0
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I totally still have a thing for my first love. Who was my first crush too .. lol. Well .. I probably still have a "thing" for how I FELT then ... not necessarily him.
It is hard to seperate how you felt then from the person she is now. Have fun and enjoy it!!! Do you feel like it could be something else or are you just looking at it friendly?0 -
I can only look at it as friends. While my current opinion of marriage isn't all that good, it isn't something I'll get in the middle of.0
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Still, that's really sweet. Keep us posted!0
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So, I was 15 and met a girl. She was sweet, pretty, nice, everything a 15 year old could want, but she was visiting her grand mother and lived in another state. We were penpals for over two years. By all accounts, I'd say she was the first girl really crushed on.
Here I am, 31 years later, meeting her for drinks tomorrow. From Facebook pics, she's OMG hot! And, unfortunately married.
How is it I feel exactly like I did when I was 15? I am so nervous, which is completely unlike me.
OMG that's my life right now....we met when I was 17....now I'm 34...just connected again....but neither of us are married....the feelings were always there...and still are after all this time!!! I was so nervous!!!! BUT IT WAS SO awesome!!!
Best of luck - it will go great!!!!0 -
So, I was 15 and met a girl. She was sweet, pretty, nice, everything a 15 year old could want, but she was visiting her grand mother and lived in another state. We were penpals for over two years. By all accounts, I'd say she was the first girl really crushed on.
Here I am, 31 years later, meeting her for drinks tomorrow. From Facebook pics, she's OMG hot! And, unfortunately married.
How is it I feel exactly like I did when I was 15? I am so nervous, which is completely unlike me.
OMG that's my life right now....we met when I was 17....now I'm 34...just connected again....but neither of us are married....the feelings were always there...and still are after all this time!!! I was so nervous!!!! BUT IT WAS SO awesome!!!
Best of luck - it will go great!!!!
Awwwww! Seriously?? That is so sweet! That was your weekend date???0 -
Using my phone as a GPS/map. I arrive, and then my phone dies. She doesn't show. Back at my room, charging my phone...0
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Doh!!!!!0
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Seriously???? See that is why i asked that question earlier..she was thinking about more and has chickened out.0
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hmmmmmmmmm update?0
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Using my phone as a GPS/map. I arrive, and then my phone dies. She doesn't show. Back at my room, charging my phone...
That totally sucks!!!!!! :sad:0 -
Update: She was there, her husband and kid too. God I want her to be happy.0
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Update: She was there, her husband and kid too. God I want her to be happy.
Awww... And I'm sure she wants you to be happy too. Bittersweet.0 -
Update: She was there, her husband and kid too. God I want her to be happy.0
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Update: She was there, her husband and kid too. God I want her to be happy.
As above said....bittersweet,.......0 -
Ah, just asked for an update in another thread, should have revisited here.....derr!! :laugh:
It's funny how life turns out. It's not meant to be, but I do wonder why your lives crossed at this point again. But hey, she's happy. You've caught up. Your own love will come again :flowerforyou:0 -
Feelings this strong don't come along that often. We meet so many people that aren't right for us that it's easy to give up hope, to settle. I just think we single peeps need these reminders of what it should feel like. So maybe seeing her again will help you find your love after all . 0
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Update: She was there, her husband and kid too. God I want her to be happy.
I've said this before but I'll say it again - whoever finally snatches you up will be very lucky!0 -
good story 0
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