when to get kinky?
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xtinalovexo
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Okay, so when you start sleeping with someone for the first time how long do you usually wait to bring our your kinky side?
If you rush into exploring do you think the sexual relationship will get boring quick?
If you rush into exploring do you think the sexual relationship will get boring quick?
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I'm pulling out the chickens and midgets day one.0
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Just tie me to the bedposts and lets get it rocking!0
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Let your partner know you want constant consideration and surprise early. Then explore.
What do you consider kinky?0 -
I imagine it'd take several times before the REAL La_Amazona comes out. Rawr!
The first few times wouldn't be vanilla but I wouldn't tell my guy the 1st time we're making love to choke me. haha0 -
HMmmm... Honestly depends on the guy. One guy might get to my kinky side much faster than another depends on how they react lol0
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Well we've discussed it, but haven't has sex yet... So clearly im not going to be bringing out whips right away. My definition of kinky would be.... Ties, blind folds, submission, role playing, spanking and other forms of pleasured pain, body paints or edible items, public sex, im pretty open... Nothing insane like fisting though.0
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The first few times wouldn't be vanilla but I wouldn't tell my guy the 1st time we're making love to choke me. haha
Maybe this is why I keep scaring them away :P0 -
are we talking whips hand cuffs.. cream and syrup here (don't forget the strawberries lol)0
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I imagine it'd take several times before the REAL La_Amazona comes out. Rawr!
The first few times wouldn't be vanilla but I wouldn't tell my guy the 1st time we're making love to choke me. haha
That's how I am... I need some time to get comfortable... But I only have a limited time window to sleep with my partner... Its complicated.0 -
Let your freak flag fly. Chains, whips, chips and dip, its all good LMAO.0
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Right away??? Like let's say you had just slept with her the first time and you're at the gym together the next day and she suggests having sex in the sauna...? Do you think if you do too much too quick that it'll get boring?0
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Right away??? Like let's say you had just slept with her the first time and you're at the gym together the next day and she suggests having sex in the sauna...? Do you think if you do too much too quick that it'll get boring?
Maybe not right away but ease into it a little. Start with the biting and scratching and see how he reacts. Also I keep all my condoms in the drawer with all my other 'goodies' so he'll get a glimpse of them. One guy and I had a straight out conversation the first time about what was out of bounds and pretty much played into everything else right away.0 -
Okay, so when you start sleeping with someone for the first time how long do you usually wait to bring our your kinky side?
If you rush into exploring do you think the sexual relationship will get boring quick?
I kinda expect to have some of that discussion before getting too involved. It's a great way to test out compatibility before certain good feelings cloud your judgment. My sister sells Passion Parties, and I was telling a guy I liked how I hoped, after marriage, to be her second biggest customer (you'll never guess who is her first, lol). His intense negative reaction (even after reminding him about certain scriptures) was enough to end any hope we'd be compatible.0 -
Right away??? Like let's say you had just slept with her the first time and you're at the gym together the next day and she suggests having sex in the sauna...? Do you think if you do too much too quick that it'll get boring?
I don't see a problem with that!
I mean, usually after the 1st time you have sex with someone you're dating, you have constant sex in the "honeymoon" period so you'd probably want it the next morning, later at the gym, later that night... etc
Or is that just me? This is how it plays in my mind.0 -
Right away??? Like let's say you had just slept with her the first time and you're at the gym together the next day and she suggests having sex in the sauna...? Do you think if you do too much too quick that it'll get boring?
I don't see a problem with that!
I mean, usually after the 1st time you have sex with someone you're dating, you have constant sex in the "honeymoon" period so you'd probably want it the next morning, later at the gym, later that night... etc
Or is that just me? This is how it plays in my mind.
You're so right girl! honey moon phase equals sex all day erryday.0 -
Well we've discussed it, but haven't has sex yet... So clearly im not going to be bringing out whips right away. My definition of kinky would be.... Ties, blind folds, submission, role playing, spanking and other forms of pleasured pain, body paints or edible items, public sex, im pretty open... Nothing insane like fisting though.
Who's who in this scene?0 -
The first few times wouldn't be vanilla but I wouldn't tell my guy the 1st time we're making love to choke me. haha
Maybe this is why I keep scaring them away :P
This scares them away?!?!0 -
Thanks for turning me on, GUYS. I'm supposed to be sleeping right now. I have to wake up in 5 hours. :sad:0
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No need to get Cray straight away... Keep something a mystery and discoverable and draw it out... but def dont hold back on that..
Have to admit, I had a girl ask me to choke her the first time we had sex, so I suppose it depends on the person and how comfortable you feel with them!!0 -
Depends on my mood. I'll bring in the kinky side if I know it's going to be casual. Just depends on how heated things get.0
