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Meghan0116
Meghan0116 Posts: 1,252 Member
edited December 2024 in Social Groups
My son's father messaged me on POF last night. Seems I came up as one of his matches. He obviously knew it was me and thought it would be funny to message me. I told him he was creepy. lol And, he added me as a favorite. Does this seem a bit intrusive to anyone else? Now he can see when I am on or last on pof. What was he doing on pof last night anyway when he should have been paying attention to our son? hmph lol

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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,301 Member
    Take the bull bt the horns so to say and ask him if he is getting any action.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    remove yourself from his favorites!

    i don't think it's funny.. the message was okay I suppose as a joke but the favorites is creepy.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I would remove him too :flowerforyou:
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    Same thing happened to me....once my ex and I had decided we were "done", I was looking at pof, and had JUST made a profile...lookign through and I saw him, so I wrote to him and he said he knew it was me....blah blah, but he went off pretty quick or he blocked me, and that was that. A few weeks later, he was back with girl he cheated on me with --goody for them.

    If you go to Favorites.......there is place that says....see people who favorite you....click on there and then you see those that favored you, and you can click on "Remove" do that, because it is intrusive for him to know when you are on there!
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,401 Member
    Very creepy. You have every right to block him.
  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    I would block him.
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    I would block him
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,535 Member
    I would definitely block him. I wouldn't want my exs checking up on me.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    Block his dumb @ss. Men suck.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Creepy! Block!
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    block block block block
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I dont even get why he messaged you... v weird
  • Showgirlbody
    Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
    He will still know when you are on if you remove yourself from his faves. In your inbox area, anyone who you have had contact with will kind of light up above your messages so he'll see when you are on. Since he messaged you, Pof will remember and tell. But he will more easily be able to see if you update your info and stuff if you are a face. Won't have to remember your screenname, etc.
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