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mrmanmeat
mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
edited December 18 in Social Groups
Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


We'll all be much better off. :)
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  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    :mad: :tongue:

    I'm a woman AND latina. Recipe for crazy. CRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAZZZZZZZZZZY!!

    Luckily, I'm crazy and passionate in other areas as well. It balances out.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    LOL if you knew what I've been stressing lately your ears would blow out
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    I'm just saying. From a guys perspective, most of us tend to be the kind to go w/ it until something comes up. Not thinking about things that MIGHT come up, etc.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)

    But you just asked us to :sad:
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)

    But you just asked us to :sad:


    Ding. Ding. Ding.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)

    But you just asked us to :sad:

    Damnit!

    Yeah I did.. but I think I just wanted ya'll to listen lolol. You know, we never say EXACTLY what we want.. we want you to read our minds, Mind Readers.









    j/k.. but this is how it works. Maybe I should just be a lesbian. She'd understand.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    The basic problem from over thinking things is that it almost always ends up with the wrong conclusion.
    If a logical path to a correct one was involved then it would be different but taking things you wish for or "feel" about yourself and forcing them into a situation is just stupid (sorry for the bluntness)
    The "I don`t like my legs so how could he so he must be leading me on!!!!!" sort of thing.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    The "I don`t like my legs so how could he so he must be leading me on!!!!!" sort of thing.

    hehe .. that is so me. If I don't like it .. there is NO POSSIBLE WAY he could. lolololol!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I actually like that men are problem-solvers, and this is probably why I have more male friends than female. I don't like to just vent; if I'm talking to you about a problem, it's because I want you to tell me what you think.

    I do tend to overanalyze things, but I don't create problems where they don't actually exist. I have found that when I'm thinking about something a lot, that's a good indicator that it's a real problem. What nearly always happens is that I'll bring it up to the guy, he'll say it's not a big deal, and then a week later, he's acting all moody and pissy, and I discover it actually was a big deal, but he thought it would go away if we just avoided talking about it.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    j/k.. but this is how it works. Maybe I should just be a lesbian. She'd understand.


    She'd understand ... bahahahahahahaha!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Or you could just do what I do and rather than over think things you could were blinders and swim in the river Denial until things become clear lol
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 664 Member
    LOL if you knew what I've been stressing lately your ears would blow out

    all I got from this was "ears and blow" :laugh:
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)

    But you just asked us to :sad:

    Damnit!

    Yeah I did.. but I think I just wanted ya'll to listen lolol. You know, we never say EXACTLY what we want.. we want you to read our minds, Mind Readers.









    j/k.. but this is how it works. Maybe I should just be a lesbian. She'd understand.

    I'll be the caretaker w/ the video camera.
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    I actually like that men are problem-solvers, and this is probably why I have more male friends than female. I don't like to just vent; if I'm talking to you about a problem, it's because I want you to tell me what you think.

    I do tend to overanalyze things, but I don't create problems where they don't actually exist. I have found that when I'm thinking about something a lot, that's a good indicator that it's a real problem. What nearly always happens is that I'll bring it up to the guy, he'll say it's not a big deal, and then a week later, he's acting all moody and pissy, and I discover it actually was a big deal, but he thought it would go away if we just avoided talking about it.

    If there are problems, they need to be discussed. They won't go away. But, I like that you don't over think and create problems. +1 for that.

    -1 for La_amazona
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    wth...

    didn't know we were playing for points here.
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    wth...

    didn't know we were playing for points here.

    It's ok, you've already got like 390293403294 :)
    lol

    <3
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    j/k.. but this is how it works. Maybe I should just be a lesbian. She'd understand.

    I think you'd just be posting on here what a pain in the *kitten* all the other lesbians are. :wink:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    true.. I can't imagine 2 me's!!!

    We'd kill each other.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Many women also seem to want a guy to be their best girlfriend.
    Almost everyone I have seen comment on the question say they can`t get along well with other ladies and have mostly guy friends.

    Why the disconnect?
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I don't want a guy to be my best "girlfriend." I do have female friends to do girl stuff with. I just can only handle so much estrogen before I either have to be alone or find some guys to hang out with.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I have a group of gf's but we're not normal. haha

    We talk like men most of the time. It's awesome.

    I don't want my guy to be my bff but just like he wants me to be a cool gf that enjoys sports and certain other activities that can be "tomboyish" I want him to be the sweet bf that can be expressive at times. A balance.
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Deal!!!
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)
    How about we just pretend to listen? Because if it doesn't involve us the we don't really care :tongue:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Please stop over thinking things you can't control.


    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Oh and men, stop trying to fix us or our problems and just listen to us. :tongue:

    We'll all be much better off. :)

    Deal!!!

    That makes life so much easier.

    "Honey the brakes are squealing!"

    "Ohhh sweetie that is awful,I sooooo feel for you *hug* :smile:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    hahahaha
  • r1ghtpath
    r1ghtpath Posts: 701 Member
    i don't want my man to be my BFF or like my girlfriends. i want my man to be my MAN!

    i'm not good with opening up and sharing feelings. so, i'm not the type to ask a guy how he feels. i mean i CAN talk about it, but i'm not going to be the one to start the conversation. i would rather go build a deck with my man.

    i tend NOT to read into things because, well i, according to the guys i've gone out with, i am disconnected, stand off ish. LOL! so, when you're naturally like that it's a bit harder to read into things. i tend to under read or totally miss.......

    if i do come to a guy with a problem, it's because i want him to help me. if i need to just "talk it out," i have a million girlfriends for that. but, when my car door is broken and i can't figure it out, and i go to a guy with that, i want him to help me fix it :-)

    i am very independent so i usually want to try myself first but after that i'll take help.

    i want my man to steal my heart and rock my world!
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    I actually like that men are problem-solvers, and this is probably why I have more male friends than female. I don't like to just vent; if I'm talking to you about a problem, it's because I want you to tell me what you think.
    I don't believe you. :noway:

    Okay, I actually do but I'm seriously amazed.

    I have bashed so many girls saying the exact contrary to me: "So, girl, what do you expect from me here?"
    I can't stand people complaining again and again about the same thing without ever trying to fix their problems. They drag me down with their problems and I don't want this to happen.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    But then you'd have little to read on this forum!

    The most entertaining posts are from women who are overanalyzing.
    :laugh: :laugh:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member

    I can't stand people complaining again and again about the same thing without ever trying to fix their problems. They drag me down with their problems and I don't want this to happen.

    OMG this is ME!!!! I have pissed a g/f off recently by saying to her "I told you 3 times what I think, please dont ask me again, I've lost interest" :laugh:

    And I agree with OP, no point over analyzing - waste.of.time :drinker: having said that, its a good way to pass the time and make conversation if you're bored :laugh:
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