You really see someone's true colors...

JanieJack
JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
edited December 2024 in Social Groups
...when they no longer need you.

That is all.

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  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
    Uh oh!?!

    I think someone may have revealed their true character and it was clearly lacking!

    What happened?
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    That is a true statement if I've ever heard one
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    yep, sad, but true :ohwell:

    Hope you're ok :flowerforyou:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,301 Member
    We have all been there...it sucks. :frown: :flowerforyou:
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    What happened?

    Can't give details here... but I will add that when people are *truly* happy with their lives/decisions, they generally don't go out of their way to hurt old flames.

    And no, this isn't about bodybuilder guy. He's still yummy and fun.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,301 Member
    What happened?

    Can't give details here... but I will add that when people are *truly* happy with their lives/decisions, they generally don't go out of their way to hurt old flames.

    And no, this isn't about bodybuilder guy. He's still yummy and fun.

    You are correct and just remember Janie that whatever it is shows the depth of their insecurities,self loathing and need to try to validate their choices.
    They have to live and wake up with that miserable lot so just thank God that you don`t.
  • DavetheHYNIC
    DavetheHYNIC Posts: 318 Member
    ...when they no longer need you.

    That is all.

    Real talk! And this applies in all aspects of life not just dating and romance
  • CharlieBarleyMom
    CharlieBarleyMom Posts: 727 Member
    There's very little else truth in this world but for that.
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    ...when they no longer need you.

    That is all.
    there loss. sorry this happened.

    the funny thing is half the time when something like this has happened to me, they try to contact me several months - year later apologizing and basically saying they didnt realize a good thing when they had it..
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    One of the girls on my friends list commented after she saw I posted on this topic and she said " After you've slept with someone".

    Pretty true I guess, you ladies can probably relate to that statement more than men Im thinking? yeah?
  • BelMckenzie
    BelMckenzie Posts: 249 Member
    One of the girls on my friends list commented after she saw I posted on this topic and she said " After you've slept with someone".

    Pretty true I guess, you ladies can probably relate to that statement more than men Im thinking? yeah?


    Yeah I agree and relate with your friends comment.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Unless they really are genuine, and then you've seen their true colors all along.

    Watch how someone treats people they consider inferiors - that'll tell you a lot more sooner.
  • castadiva
    castadiva Posts: 2,016 Member
    Too true. Very sorry you're having a rough time. :flowerforyou:
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Unfortunately true. >.<

    Good riddance,though! *hugs*
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056 Member
    FOR SURE! I was appalled.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056 Member
    What happened?

    Can't give details here... but I will add that when people are *truly* happy with their lives/decisions, they generally don't go out of their way to hurt old flames.

    And no, this isn't about bodybuilder guy. He's still yummy and fun.

    You are correct and just remember Janie that whatever it is shows the depth of their insecurities,self loathing and need to try to validate their choices.
    They have to live and wake up with that miserable lot so just thank God that you don`t.

    Carl .. you are the best my man. =)
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Too true. Very sorry you're having a rough time. :flowerforyou:

    Thanks. Not really a rough time, though. Just annoying. I always keep busy, so not much time to dwell on jerky people.
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