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UsedToBeHusky
UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,227 Member
edited December 2024 in Social Groups
That I just realized that an errand I am going on in a little while is taking me near where the former crush that rejected me works and now I can't stop thinking about him. Seems like I can't stop from thinking about him sometimes. Rejection sucks!!

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  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    It happens.........not pathetic...just a part of life....I see my "imposible crush" every Friday..................and though I never pursued, still little bit of a sting every Friday ....sometimes more sometimes less.........
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Not pathetic... sucks, but it's not pathetic.

    Rejection DOES suck!!!
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    so totally not pathetic.
  • saintspoon
    saintspoon Posts: 242 Member
    Not AT ALL!!!

    I know there's a few times I was rejected & I didn't even really freakin' like the guy(s) but i was still pi$$ed off as all hell!! It's just a normal feeling & way worse if you actually liked them :laugh:


    * edit for typo :)
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I'd be the same. yeah, pretty pathetic, but we're only human :flowerforyou:

    Did you bump into him? Did you hope you might? :bigsmile:
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    Rejections is a *kitten*....

    Im going through a spate of it online lol.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,393 Member
    You know what you like. Even it hurts...its not pathetic.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,301 Member
    Every crush I have had (most of which ended in rejection) has some song attached to it...if/when I hear that song I am taken back there to relive the heartbreak.
    It is just how life is. :flowerforyou:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,401 Member
    Rejection sucks, but it is just a part of life we have to deal with, and not just in dating and relationships.
  • LisaD1021
    LisaD1021 Posts: 42 Member
    Thinking about him is not pathetic...stalking him would be. :ohwell:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,227 Member
    Thinking about him is not pathetic...stalking him would be. :ohwell:

    Definitely not stalking him. Just happened to be in the area. But, boy, it would have made my day to run into him. Of course, it didn't happen and it was probably for the best. I just get mad at myself for giving this guy headspace that he doesn't deserve. But it's like I just can't stop myself. The harder I try, the worse it gets.
  • craigers13
    craigers13 Posts: 241 Member
    It happens to everyone. I have a some strong feelings for a girl I see at work but I've already been rejected due to us "working together" although we work for different companies in a different area. We're "friends" but I still want more. Supid friend-zone :grumble:
  • MirelaH
    MirelaH Posts: 129 Member
    Nope, not pathetic at all! We don't always get what (or who) we want, but what matters is that you took a chance! :flowerforyou:
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    Nope, not pathetic at all! We don't always get what (or who) we want, but what matters is that you took a chance! :flowerforyou:

    yah! I have a few crushes but I'm too shy and have fear of rejection as well. maybe someday it'll change.
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