How the tides have turned..
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Yeah I have and I got sweet sweet revenge haha.
Ditto.
This happened A LOT with chicks from high school that hardly gave me the time of day back then. But even more recently, yeah. But ya know what... tough *kitten* & take a hike. :flowerforyou:0 -
Sure have...and damn...what a lost its been for them.
My ex-girlfriend is in that position now as are 2 ladies that continue to try to reconnect with me.0 -
Several of the guys I was somehow involved with in the past have pushed me away then put me up on a pedestal, telling me they didn't deserve me. Sadly, I have had to agree with them most of the time.
Never wanted someone back that I dumped though.0 -
YES! and i usually dont hear back from them until i am 100% completely over it and have absolutely no interest in revisiting the past0
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YES! and i usually dont hear back from them until i am 100% completely over it and have absolutely no interest in revisiting the past
Exactly.0 -
I forgot another one. My first wife left me for a guy. Three years later she wanted to get back together. My answer: No chance0
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I forgot another one. My first wife left me for a guy. Three years later she wanted to get back together. My answer: No chance
Hahaha ooooh man wow. Damn right, NO CHANCE!0 -
Yes, but usually by time they realize it, I've already moved on.
The most poignant one for me was my best college guy friend. We did everything together senior year. But I knew I wasn't his type (thin and blonde) so I moved on and dated others even though we still hung out a lot as friends. Months after I got married, he calls me realizing he missed having me by his side. My marriage was already a mess (sigh) and I was really tempted to renew our friendship. But I told him I couldn't talk to him anymore because I was married.
I remember being mad at him for not having expressed interest while I was still single... I might never have married a guy who turned on me during our wedding reception. He's degraded significantly (drunk) so it wouldn't have worked out any better.0 -
My ex and I were together about 2 years...about a year after we broke up he contacts me saying how he missed me and was wrong about things....I had grown from our relationship so I didn't take him back...he tried it again about 6 months ago and again I didn't want him back...I think he realizes he lost a great person.0
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Nope. Usually when I get rejected. I stay rejected...
That was a long time ago though.0 -
after my ex husband and I split up I lost 45 pounds and he suddenly couldn't live with out me. He cheated for three years I found out and I'm not taking him back, but he tries real hard0
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No, but I'm definitely hoping it will happen
Same. Quite a bit more complicated than just a crush, but yeah, I'm hoping he realized he f**ked up.0 -
this is the story of my life too! Usually though it comes about when exclusivity comes around. Like, here we are, have been dating, then all of a sudden it shows up they're in a relationship with someone else. I'm in that situation again right now, and it hurts a lot especially after their actions/words make you think otherwise. Sometimes I have taken the person back and its worked out wonderfully. This time around, absolutely not. I think it really depends on the situation. As mentioned before, a lot of times you'll realize you've outgrown the person
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Have you ever been in a situation where someone you were really into rejected you but many months later had an epiphany and realized they made a mistake?
yep. it was years instead of months later though.0 -
yes...numerous times, and I am "soft" and usually give them another chance.......don't think I will again. Ex husband...we broke up twice before getting engaged and he came crawling back both times, and I took him back....should have realized then..........ugh!0
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Story of my life!
^^This...^^0 -
Never happened to me. I think I *really* screw up when I screw up!0
