Am I just a sucker?!?!?!
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jbella99
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So there's this guy I met like two years ago. HE was in the process of separating from his wife at the time and we had this torrid type of affair, I would meet him at lunch or after work we did the deed in some exciting places. When he finally got his own place I went there a few times. When we met I made it clear that I was looking for more than a fwb and he agreed that's what he wanted too but, he flaked out all the time on me. Cancelled dates unless he knew he would get laid.
Finally I called him out on it he got mad and said if I didn't trust him then we shouldn't talk anymore so, we stopped seeing each other.
About 6 months later he emails me apologizing saying he was falling for me and it scared him so he pushed me away. We tried again and again he flaked.
Now 8 months later he emailed me again..... He said he's sorry and that he misses me and he wants to start over again. That he was stupid and that he's never met anyone like me before and really wants to try.
WTH???
Finally I called him out on it he got mad and said if I didn't trust him then we shouldn't talk anymore so, we stopped seeing each other.
About 6 months later he emails me apologizing saying he was falling for me and it scared him so he pushed me away. We tried again and again he flaked.
Now 8 months later he emailed me again..... He said he's sorry and that he misses me and he wants to start over again. That he was stupid and that he's never met anyone like me before and really wants to try.
WTH???
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No no no!!
First time, shame on him.. 2nd time shame on you.. now for a 3rd time??
NO. He's probably lonely and horny. He's showed his true colors to you twice. What more do you need??
You deserve better. :flowerforyou:0 -
No no no!!
NO. He's probably lonely and horny.
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No no no!!
First time, shame on him.. 2nd time shame on you.. now for a 3rd time??
NO. He's probably lonely and horny. He's showed his true colors to you twice. What more do you need??
You deserve better. :flowerforyou:
Yeah, but I SURE know how you feel!!!
I had a friend who turned out to only be "separated." Boundaries up, call me when you’re single (he was AMAZING, but I just couldn’t go there). He actually calls me up months later... talking about his ex and this divorce…so I thought he was all mine now… we had an amazing time... until I find out he's STILL not single. They hadn’t even filed paperwork!!!!
WHAT?? SERIOUSLY???
And you know what… even now…two years later... when he texts me it takes EVERY bit of willpower not to respond. He was that amazing. Hot, romantic, charming, yummm.
So yeah, stay away, but I know how hard that is to do!!
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NO. He's probably lonely and horny.
/thread
(unless you are also and just wanna get some booty. lol)0 -
I agree stay away from him... he's just stringing you along to get some... and if you want some respond... if not NEXT!0
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Hey, if you want it, hit it and quit it. If it's more than that then just hit the mental ignore button.0
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Well I've had far better booty calls..... hahaha0
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NEXT!
walk away and do not look back - his track record speaks for himself.0 -
No No No!!!!0
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Your only a sucker if you buy the s**t he's selling. If u wanna go back to get your swerve on that's on you just go in with your eyes wide open, also make him beg, take you on some expensive dates and play with his emotions like he did you.0
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You're setting yourself up for disappointment if you go back. Even if you just want to get laid go find someone else!
Guys like this make me :mad:0 -
You're setting yourself up for disappointment if you go back. Even if you just want to get laid go find someone else!
Guys like this make me :mad:
Tell us how ya REALLY feel, Sandra!
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So I told mr. horny loser to get a hooker and he actually got offended imagine that........0
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You're setting yourself up for disappointment if you go back. Even if you just want to get laid go find someone else!
Guys like this make me :mad:
Tell us how ya REALLY feel, Sandra! :laugh:
haha Josh. Can you tell it sparked a nerve from the past?0 -
So I told mr. horny loser to get a hooker and he actually got offended imagine that........
:flowerforyou: Good Job.0 -
So there's this guy I met like two years ago. HE was in the process of separating from his wife at the time and we had this torrid type of affair, I would meet him at lunch or after work we did the deed in some exciting places. When he finally got his own place I went there a few times. When we met I made it clear that I was looking for more than a fwb and he agreed that's what he wanted too but, he flaked out all the time on me. Cancelled dates unless he knew he would get laid.
Finally I called him out on it he got mad and said if I didn't trust him then we shouldn't talk anymore so, we stopped seeing each other.
About 6 months later he emails me apologizing saying he was falling for me and it scared him so he pushed me away. We tried again and again he flaked.
Now 8 months later he emailed me again..... He said he's sorry and that he misses me and he wants to start over again. That he was stupid and that he's never met anyone like me before and really wants to try.
WTH???
Yes, you are.0 -
So I told mr. horny loser to get a hooker and he actually got offended imagine that........
LOVE LOVE this! I am proud of you :flowerforyou:0 -
NO. He's probably lonely and horny.
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(unless you are also and just wanna get some booty. lol)
Haha!0 -
His actions speak for themselves. Good for you not buying into his bulls*^%. You are worth more!0
