mall guy
acasey0123
Posts: 640 Member
so about 1.5 months ago I met a guy at the mall and we hit it off pretty well. We hung out about 2-3 times/week. Well last week he was away on business and he didnt want to hang out with me this past weekend when he came home and i havent heard from him since. Also the last copuple of times when I slept over his apartment it was kind of akward. Guess all good things must come to an end 
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Yeah but they're fun while they last!
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Unlucky... Sometimes in these situations, unless there is undeniable chemistry and mutual attraction.. one person can become annoying to the other and things just teeter off the radar. Best that way too!0
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Slept over his apt and had sex? No sex but slept in the same bed? What? Regardless, what made it awkward?0
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Aw. =( Sorry. :flowerforyou:0
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I'm sorry. That sucks.
Did ya'll ever make it official?0 -
That sucks.. I thought it was official, or almost there.
Also, he just quit talking to you without any explanation? How rude!0 -
That sucks.. I thought it was official, or almost there.
Also, he just quit talking to you without any explanation? How rude!
We weren't official and yea pretty much0 -
Yeah, why was it awkward? Did you feel the 'I'm not that happy with this anymore" vibe??
OR perhaps he's just busy?0 -
Yeah, why was it awkward? Did you feel the 'I'm not that happy with this anymore" vibe??
OR perhaps he's just busy?
last night he texted me and then i texted him and i was like just to let you know i have your tupperware so next time i see you remind me to bring it...then 5 seconds later he texts me and goes what are you doing tonight...i ended up going and stayed the night and he finally cuddled with me which never happened and today we texted as well.... i dont get this kid :grumble:0 -
Time to find the next guy this one is wasting your time. I can't deal with wishy-washy people like that. :flowerforyou:0
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so I went over to his apartment last night after he said I could come over and he played video games for about an hour. ummm we're not in a relationship but wtf? And I know what youre thinking why am i still with him but if Im not I have NO ONE....especially when both of my roomies are working0
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you need to meet someone else. It all sounds very wishy washy and boring tbh.
Go dating/meetup and get some more friends. Stop living life in the background!! :flowerforyou:0 -
so I went over to his apartment last night after he said I could come over and he played video games for about an hour. ummm we're not in a relationship but wtf? And I know what youre thinking why am i still with him but if Im not I have NO ONE....especially when both of my roomies are working
To each his own but I rather be alone even if I'm miserable than to be with someone and be more miserable and rejected.
At least I can make myself laugh, cry, cum, dance, whatever!0 -
so I went over to his apartment last night after he said I could come over and he played video games for about an hour. ummm we're not in a relationship but wtf? And I know what youre thinking why am i still with him but if Im not I have NO ONE....especially when both of my roomies are working
To each his own but I rather be alone even if I'm miserable than to be with someone and be more miserable and rejected.
At least I can make myself laugh, cry, cum, dance, whatever!
or play your own video games.0 -
I don't know where you live but have you tried meetup.com? I recently (about 2 months) joined one group that is very active and always has things going on. Through that group I joined another group that the 1st group sometimes has mutual meetups with. I have become so busy with different things in these groups and meeting some great people that I have things in common with. The thing is to find a group that you see others actually signed up for and preticipating in events.0
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I've been in one of the meetup goups but kinda apprehensive about it since i dont know anyone and im also pretty shy to begin with.0
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sorry to say this, but it sounds like you've been downgraded to plan b or plan c, either way he's not even putting in an effort because you've let him know through your actions that he doesnt need to put in effort and that you're ok with what's going on.
if you're OK with this then fine, but if you aren't then there's no reason to make a guy your plan A when you're his plan b0 -
And I know what youre thinking why am i still with him but if Im not I have NO ONE....especially when both of my roomies are working
Oh, this is not good. When you're saying "I really need this guy because I don't have anyone else," you're already on the downward slope.0 -
And I know what youre thinking why am i still with him but if Im not I have NO ONE....especially when both of my roomies are working
Oh, this is not good. When you're saying "I really need this guy because I don't have anyone else," you're already on the downward slope.
My thoughts exactly. When I felt the same way I got a dog instead.0 -
i FINALLY joined a meetup group and hes starting to turn around which is good0
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i FINALLY joined a meetup group and hes starting to turn around which is good
turn around how? Is he noticing you more because you don't seem to have as much time for him?0 -
i FINALLY joined a meetup group and hes starting to turn around which is good
turn around how? Is he noticing you more because you don't seem to have as much time for him?
ive been to one meeting so far (thats ow much there was) and im spenind more nights with him...now its like every other night. but i kinda want him to be my bf probably bc of that label0
