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jenbit
jenbit Posts: 4,251 Member
edited December 2024 in Social Groups
Well I promised you guys I would man up and put on my big girl panties and I did......... It didnt go well. He says he doesnt remember asking me out and said I was reading to much into our conversation the other night.... When he did finally remeber the whole conversation where he asked me out he just kinda laughed it off. Neddless to say I was just a smidge pissed :explode: .... I did however tell him not to worry about it and it was no biggie... Now however I feel like Ive inflated his ego.... He did want to know if we could still sleep together. LOL.... Needless to say we will stay friends but he will not be sucking up all of my avalible time anymore

Don't worry I recover fast..... I ended up going out last night with my boys to meet one of their new boyfriends and ran into a long term back and forth crush..:bigsmile: :blushing: ...... I'm very very bad lol.....

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  • Nerple
    Nerple Posts: 1,291 Member
    Well that sucks, but at least now you know and don't have to worry about it.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Blah!!!

    And... NEXT!!!!!!
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Sounds like he was just playing games. :grumble:

    Good on you for having the balls, and good on you for not letting it get you down too much!

    {{{{{hugs anyway}}}}}} :flowerforyou:
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    Congrats on finding the courage. You'll move on.
  • slay0r
    slay0r Posts: 668 Member
    Aww that sucks. At least you know where you stand now. Guarentee he'll be wanting you the second he see's your out with other people ;) (See FL on la_amazona's posts)

    Least you heal fast etc, that's really good :)
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 663 Member
    at least your moving on ... at this point don't get to attached just use him as you need :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    Now you know, and clearly are moving on .......good for you!
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Well you did everything you could have done... you no longer have to worry what if.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    Barf. lol.

    But .. like the others said .. now you know. Knowledge is power baby!

    :heart: Good for you for getting it done. :flowerforyou:
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,251 Member
    LOL thanks for the support... I actaully feel better knowing whats going on... Though he seems really confused about what he wants thats not my problem....

    I'm supposed to go out with someone tonight and then army boy has a BBq this weekend he wants me to go to so its not like I'll lack for company
  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
    Good for you!!! You know where you stand, and also get to decide based on your intentions, not his what if's, whether or not you want to keep him or find a new FWB.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,251 Member
    Oh I'll keep him around for new he's a steady lay lol .... But the minute something more interesting comes around (which it might have already lol) hes out poof
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    Oh I'll keep him around for new he's a steady lay lol .... But the minute something more interesting comes around (which it might have already lol) hes out poof

    Awesome! Out with the old... in with the new.

    Good job pinning him down and asking the tough questions!!
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Good on ya for clearing that up! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Oh I'll keep him around for new he's a steady lay lol .... But the minute something more interesting comes around (which it might have already lol) hes out poof

    AWESOME! So great you finally confronted him. Sucks he turned out to be just messing with you, but I admire that you called him on and that you are successfully mentally checking out. Doesn't it feel so much better to not have to constantly worry about that nonsense? :)
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Well, he's just gone down in my estimation. WTF was he doing saying something like that for?? :grumble:

    And they say women play games!!!!!!! I dont think a woman would play THAT one!! He's just made you let your emotional barriers slip and that isnt funny! Jerk!

    I'd be finding myself a new FWB, he doesnt deserve you! :flowerforyou:

    Hate games........arghhh!! :explode:

    Yep, use him until you find better......:flowerforyou:
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