I did not choose the size of these things

Karalopolous

So, it's really aggravating for me with these giant knockers sometimes. They're here, they can't be hidden, and I hate being made to feel like I'm a bad person because my body decided that it wanted me to be a 36G.
But at work, my coworker/supervisor (im not actually sure what the hell she is really....she runs one office and I help her but don't report to her, whatevers...) made a comment about my boobs the other day. She told me that I should pull my cardigan together (I had a cami underneath) because my boobs are like WHOA!
That just pisses me off. I didn't choose them and I absolutely hate comments like this. Why the hell do people feel the need, or even the right to comment on mine? It's really aggravating and I wish people would just shut up and understand that it's hard to lug these things around without trying to make you feel worse about them. (Im not looking for a snappy comeback or anything to say or do about this issue, Im merely venting :explode: )
It's also aggravating because she is kind of in charge of the dress code and dresses like an 80 year old so anything I wear is def. labeled inappropriate. I hate when people act like this and I just needed to get that off my chest!

christyk117

Probably because these days people don't know the difference between real & fake boobs. She probably thinks you had a boob job done to make them that big.
I'm a natural 44DD and when I wear clothes with cleavage I feel uncomfortable. I should show my girls off & not feel I need to hide them. They are my best attribute, besides my lovely personality.

miranda_mom

She's just jealous. I'm sure you looked beautiful!

enyo123

Having been both flat chested and stacked, I have to tell you that I prefer being stacked. ;-) (No, they're natural; I just didn't get boobs until I started having babies.) I was a 36G when I was pregnant with my daughter and went back "down" to a 34F/36E. I live in tank tops and don't even attempt to hide them because, well, boobs are cool.

Seriously, unless you wear only turtlenecks, you're going to have cleavage. And even in a turtleneck, it's still possible. ;-)

She just needs to suck it up and get over it: you have boobs. End of story.

JustAmyRenee

I have n idea what kind of office you work in, but i work in human resources, and what she said is highly innapropriate... UHM SEXUAL HARRASSMENT MUCH??

JessePaige90

People always find a way to point them out. I have been bigger than most girls since middle school. It sucks. some women will make you feel like a *kitten* and men will make you feel like you're just there to be objectified. It's not fair and no one should have to put up with that. It takes a lot of strength for me not to go over the edge when someone decides to be a jerk because of what's under my shirt. I feel your frustration every day. At my job I have had male customers oggle at me and not be one bit subtle and I have had female customers tell me that my clothing is unbecoming of a professional because no matter what I wear (unless I start dressing Amish) is going to allow them to stand out. People are just insensitive, superficial jerks. They see someone out of the norm and they have to point it out. Hang in there, this crap isn't going away anytime soon but I have to say I would have reported her, what she said was totally unprofessional and usually isn't tolerated in the workplace and you shouldn't have to put up with it.