How to get over the saddness

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Sabrina918
Sabrina918 Posts: 8 Member
It is very hard for me to get over the fact that I let myself get this way. I hate looking in the mirror, let alone getting naked for my boyfriend. I wish I can find the confidence that other women have. Any advice??

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  • LassoOfTruth
    LassoOfTruth Posts: 735 Member
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    Hi Sabrina918... my name's Francesca. I just turned 30, and I was 325 when I did. I know that feeling of "how did I get this way?" But, to be honest... you have to shake the off first before you begin to do anything great about exercise and weight loss. I am pretty lucky to have an awesome mom and supportive boyfriend that push me along. I also don't like being naked/intimate with him, just because how I look. And, he could tell me I'm the sexiest/beautifuest/hottest girl he's ever seen til he's blue in the face, but if I don't feel that... it's just not true. He's frustrated with me, yes, but he understands my appearance issues. You're not alone... that's all I wanted to say. And, you can reach out to me anytime.