So done - but just still dont get it

Tropical_Turtle
Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
edited December 21 in Social Groups
Last night for giggles I went on POF (where I met text dumper) to find he had posted a pic I took of him last month when we went camping. I am so DONE and I am so much better off without that jerk :explode:

I just do not get - why not just tell me you do not want to be with me? I have never given him any reason to be afraid (have never gone psycho on him) I was just trying to communicate which is something you said you wanted and yet make it my issue.

Geez why must dating be so damn difficult??? :mad: :grumble:

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  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Because he lacks the balls. It's cowardly of him and easier (for him) to make up some dumb excuse than to say "I'm not interested anymore" or whatever.

    I'm sorry. The fact that he put up a new picture shows you plain and simple where his heart was. Jerk!!!!

    Funny thing, back in they day when I was stuck on FL, I looked him up on POF for giggles too and found he had put up a pic that I took of him (I think he had cropped me out LOL)... I was PISSED!!!

    Dumbasses.

    ((Hugs!!!!))
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    Last night for giggles I went on POF (where I met text dumper) to find he had posted a pic I took of him last month when we went camping. I am so DONE and I am so much better off without that jerk :explode:

    I just do not get - why not just tell me you do not want to be with me? I have never given him any reason to be afraid (have never gone psycho on him) I was just trying to communicate which is something you said you wanted and yet make it my issue.

    Geez why must dating be so damn difficult??? :mad: :grumble:
    I need a back story here.

    All I see is that you're mad he posted a picture you took.
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member

    Still not seeing what the issue is. Aside from maybe b/c he broke up with her via text?
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member

    Still not seeing what the issue is. Aside from maybe b/c he broke up with her via text?

    He dumped me via text and not even 24 hours later (if not while he was still with me) looking for someone else?
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511

    Still not seeing what the issue is. Aside from maybe b/c he broke up with her via text?

    He dumped me via text and not even 24 hours later (if not while he was still with me) looking for someone else?

    So why are you mad?? I would feel lucky you found out early he was a d-bag and move on.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    she's venting! jeezzz boys.
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    I am mad because he said he wanted one thing and so did another. I am mad because I was probably more patient and understanding than most women he would have met around here. I am mad because get some gawd dang freakin balls and stand up and say No I dont want to be with you, dont be such a p*ssy!
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    she's venting! jeezzz boys.

    I thought the last post about this guy was venting?? Now she should count her lucky stars she didn't blow months with this guy!

    Does Smiley sometimes break through a line of people and sack you?? Cause that is what Jarred Allen would do! :happy:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Does Smiley sometimes break through a line of people and sack you?? Cause that is what Jarred Allen would do! :happy:

    Sack me?? :blushing: Yes, yes he does...

    We do wrestle haha
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member

    Still not seeing what the issue is. Aside from maybe b/c he broke up with her via text?

    He dumped me via text and not even 24 hours later (if not while he was still with me) looking for someone else?

    How long were you "dating" him?
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I am mad because he said he wanted one thing and so did another. I am mad because I was probably more patient and understanding than most women he would have met around here. I am mad because get some gawd dang freakin balls and stand up and say No I dont want to be with you, dont be such a p*ssy!

    Like Poncho said, the good thing is you see he's a d-bag. You have every right to be angry. Take the experience/ lesson as a good one learned!
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member

    Still not seeing what the issue is. Aside from maybe b/c he broke up with her via text?

    He dumped me via text and not even 24 hours later (if not while he was still with me) looking for someone else?

    How long were you "dating" him?

    6 months
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