Who needs enemies when you have friends like this.

MissingMinnesota

If you all rememebered I met a guy through my meetup group playing trampoline dodgeball and then a party a couple days later. He was all about me at the party, stopped to talking to a group and went to talk to me when I arrived, pretty much giving each other smiles and casual touches for about 5 hours and ended with a back rub. No number exchanged but it seemed like we had a connection and wasn't worried since we are part of this group and would see eachother later.
Well after I left the party, a girl I thought I was kind of a friend with, swooped in and must have told him I was dating someone else. I had told her I had a date when I went back to MN but it was just a first date nothing serious. She also had a boyfriend so I thought she would be a "safe friend".
Well they are now appear to be a couple. Someone else was telling me that he was now showing up to cheer her on and was shocked to see it since he appeared to be into me. They both play on my softball team now. Neither one was there for the frist game that I played but were there last weekend while I was away. They and another guy that she is friends with were there when I showed up. I gave a big group hi and didn't get anything back from any of them. She actually turned her back on me. So I went and talked to some of the other guys. The whole game they barely talked to me which is strange since we all talked together when I we were playing kickball. She asked me how my date was but just laughed when I told her there was no connection.
All durning the game he was calling her baby girl.

Really I am just confused why someone that acted as my friend would do this? Especially someone I know that had a boyfriend even though everyone was asking her when she was going to break up with him. I think I am more confused about how she acted then how he acted. Since I am getting the feeling she feels guilty about doing it by her actions. Also I now have to be around them for the rest of the season if not longer.

AnnaPixie

Some women are just b1tches and would do anything to get the guy!!

I think you just met one!!

I'm sorry this has happened, but hey, he is probably not worth your time if he is that fickle!! :flowerforyou:

DMZ_1

One thing that needs to be pointed out here is that women will often behave in a manner consistent with the so-called friend. She was "in a relationship" but it was clearly on its last legs. In this case, many women will start looking for other men at this point and will jump ship with the old bf once a new bf has been established.

AllanMisner

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6qj9teW2Z0

I think she explains it...

oddyogi

What a b*tch! I would totally call her out on it.

Carl01

Guys fight,women snipe...eom

MissingMinnesota

What a b*tch! I would totally call her out on it.

I don't want to make things bad for our softball team. We are only 3 games into the season. Right now I will just move on and get over it.

dbrightwell1270

I hate to be blunt but I don't see how she did anything wrong. There's the old saying, you snooze, you lose. You didn't get his phone number when you had the chance or try to line up anything for the future. You also had a date with another guy. I wouldn't put my life on hold waiting for a friendly acquaintance to decide whether to make a move or not if I found a girl who was a great catch.

JanieJack

Wow. that stinks!!

MissingMinnesota

I hate to be blunt but I don't see how she did anything wrong. There's the old saying, you snooze, you lose. You didn't get his phone number when you had the chance or try to line up anything for the future. You also had a date with another guy. I wouldn't put my life on hold waiting for a friendly acquaintance to decide whether to make a move or not if I found a girl who was a great catch.

It is more the cold shoulder and them barely talking to me at the game today. If they acted normal it would have been different.

Natx83

Yeah i bet she woudlnt have much to say if you called her out on it... Acting all *****y now like she is.. just give some of it back...

You dont want to date someone who starts calling you baby girl in like the first week... He's all hot for her now... Just give it a month or so. LOL

DMZ_1

I hate to be blunt but I don't see how she did anything wrong. There's the old saying, you snooze, you lose. You didn't get his phone number when you had the chance or try to line up anything for the future. You also had a date with another guy. I wouldn't put my life on hold waiting for a friendly acquaintance to decide whether to make a move or not if I found a girl who was a great catch.

Yes, good point. It is important to exchange numbers, maybe talk a little about future plans. Nothing wrong with a woman taking initiative from time to time. Guys like that.

calvert6183

One thing that needs to be pointed out here is that women will often behave in a manner consistent with the so-called friend. She was "in a relationship" but it was clearly on its last legs. In this case, many women will start looking for other men at this point and will jump ship with the old bf once a new bf has been established.

Sorry this happened, this happens to my friends alot. It seems women like that change their loyalty and personality to accommidate to the persoWith these type of women, attention is way more imporatant than friendship or love. They are extremely competitive and will take your man in a heart beat.

A study just was released statign that the number one reason for women to break up with men is they found someone else. Most of the time, they have the replacement before it ends. I say things about women, its the ones in the 20s and 30s, they just seem to have any loyalty to anyone such as jobs, family, boyfriend, and their kids. There are good women out there who are in their 20s and 30s but unfortunaltely you are so outnumbered by the bad ones.

My friends who are females wont even be friends with them becuase of how destructive they are to themselves and others. Older women is the way to go, they are just different.

pa_jorg

That totally sucks, so sorry.

Moe4572

Sorry that happened.....this is a good reason to make more guy friends....girls are too catty

MissingMinnesota

Sorry that happened.....this is a good reason to make more guy friends....girls are too catty

I tend to have equal amounts of girl and guy friends. Maybe I wasn't a threat to the girls before when I was heavier so I never had this type of issue. One of the girls in the meetup group said that she has noticed most the girls are very agressive when it comes to hooking up with some of the guys. I am just not agressive enough but oh well live and learn.

Steelheart7

Some people want what others have .. it doesn't matter whether or not she was interested to begin with. I had this girl my senior year in high school who would go after every guy I started to talk to. She would sleep with them all, so they would all go for her. She made sure that I knew she slept with them too.

He was obviously looking for a relationship and found one. Chalk it up to lesson learned .. if you find someone you have a connection with .. GO FOR IT! Don't wait!