Why I Should Be Desirable...
jaxdiablo
Posts: 580
This is pretty damn awesome - And for the record, ladies, if you sleep with someone who views himself as less attractive than you, chances are he's going to be super appreciative and go out of his way to make sure it's not an awful experience. What I'm saying is, maybe consider sleeping with a fat dude this weekend. You'll be glad you did.
Just saying ladies, when I get done I look like I just won a glazed doughnut eating contest. lol
Just saying ladies, when I get done I look like I just won a glazed doughnut eating contest. lol
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Whhhaaaat!?
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Nope, just posted something on my wall, and figured I'd share it with the single folks. Giving some food for thought.0
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thanks for that Jax, I'm now going to rush out and bag me a fat dude!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
WTF?? I think you might find that finding sex (or good sex) is not what most women are looking for on here?? :ohwell:
But I'm very happy that you had a good time!! :bigsmile:
Is the said lady a ONS or are you now dating?? :flowerforyou:0 -
Oh, this isn't about anyone in particular except me. I was just referencing my general joy at the application of certain things. Sure, I think women would really like more than good sex, which if you think about it, wouldn't the guy always want to do everything he could to keep the woman happy if he had her on a pedestal?
Just saying...
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The risk is that he might die of a heart attack, for the obese might not be used to so much naughtiness.
That said, I would say ex-fat people are the best! They still have the spirit but now also come with the body.0 -
I look like I just won a glazed doughnut eating contest. lol
Gee, thanks! Now I need mental floss. LOL!0 -
You would be doing him or her a favor. Consider it sexercise and you're the gym. :drinker:0
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That said, I would say ex-fat people are the best! They still have the spirit but now also come with the body.
OMG, Yes... x10!0 -
... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.0
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... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
Ya know, I have NEVER seen you post anything positive in response to anything. Why are you so bitter? Why do you have no sense of humor? Is life really that hard that you are that unhappy?0 -
... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
How you doing?
lol...... I love ya Jax0 -
... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
Ya know, I have NEVER seen you post anything positive in response to anything.
Bitter or not... there is a hint of truth to it... a lot of the bigger guys I hear begging women to give them a chance also turn their noses up at a bigger woman.0 -
... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
Ya know, I have NEVER seen you post anything positive in response to anything.
Bitter or not... there is a hint of truth to it... a lot of the bigger guys I hear begging women to give them a chance also turn their noses up at a bigger woman.
Bigger is different from grossly obese and comfortable with it. I wouldn't turn my nose up at a woman who was overweight, but proportionate and trying to get in shape. I can't let myself slip back into the way I was before where I would sit on my *kitten* and eat whatever I wanted.
I've never stated I wanted a fitness model or someone who was "perfect". I will admit I may not be the most motivational person, and it would do better for me in the long run to be with someone who was in better shape than me to help keep me motivated.0 -
I look like I just won a glazed doughnut eating contest. lol
Gee, thanks! Now I need mental floss. LOL!
^ Agreed, Mental floss and some brain wash....sounds to me like rubber necking 101...car wrecks you don't want to see em, but you can' look away. 4th of July hot dog eating contest, you are curious but you don't want to see the people stuff hot dogs, buns that are soaked in beer or water in their mouths until they hurl. :sick: :noway:0 -
You both know you will be using that as a mental motivator later...
I'm just saying it will probably be when you're running to run faster in hopes I can never catch you, but motivator none the less.0 -
Just saying ladies, when I get done I look like I just won a glazed doughnut eating contest. lol
Wow! I haven't heard that in a WHILE! One of my friends used to use that reference when he used to...umm. yea.
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... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
Ya know, I have NEVER seen you post anything positive in response to anything.
Bitter or not... there is a hint of truth to it... a lot of the bigger guys I hear begging women to give them a chance also turn their noses up at a bigger woman.
Bigger is different from grossly obese and comfortable with it. I wouldn't turn my nose up at a woman who was overweight, but proportionate and trying to get in shape. I can't let myself slip back into the way I was before where I would sit on my *kitten* and eat whatever I wanted.
I've never stated I wanted a fitness model or someone who was "perfect". I will admit I may not be the most motivational person, and it would do better for me in the long run to be with someone who was in better shape than me to help keep me motivated.
See I understand what your saying Jax .. I can be very easily derailed so I prefer guys who are into working out and trying to eat mostly healthy. I dont turn down bigger guys cause their bigger espicially if they are trying to lose weight but if they are gonna derail me from my weight loss then they are no good for me ...0 -
... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
How you doing?
lol...... I love ya Jax
I farking lol'ed. Sorry.0 -
did you just tell me not to have standards?0
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You know that's not what I said. Good try though! :flowerforyou:did you just tell me not to have standards?
I decided to expound a bit. Basically I'm telling women specifically (because women think this all the time and it's completely ok for them to say it to men), that they should look past the fact that a guy might be overweight, and they should give him a shot. Maybe they'd finally find that guy that puts them on the dais like they want to be placed.
I do say this knowing I've dated and been with larger women, when I say larger, I mean larger than me. They usually have personality issues that don't mesh with my current lifestyle or desired lifestyle at least, so I shouldn't be chastised for wanting someone who is in better shape because they have the habits I want to emulate.
I'm tired of men being told they are horribly shallow *kitten* because they want physically fit women, or women that are "classically" attractive. Women do that all the friggin time and it's completely acceptable. This double standard is asinine to me.0 -
Men and women BOTH look for some equally or more attractive...that won't change. I think the point is that women are more likely to reconsider who they find attractive based on getting to know personality but that takes time. Most of my guy friends admit they decide if you're friend material or dating material quickly and that is not likely to change. Doesn't mean they wouldn't still bang her ( their words) but she's still just a friend despite liking her personality.
Honest opinion? And I say this as a woman having the same issue... You've a better shot as a guy of getting a woman to look past weight long term but it takes more time than men would like. Me? I'm friend zoned for life with guy's who have put me there!
Of course, I'm speaking generically... Anything is possible!0 -
You know that's not what I said. Good try though! :flowerforyou:did you just tell me not to have standards?
I decided to expound a bit. Basically I'm telling women specifically (because women think this all the time and it's completely ok for them to say it to men), that they should look past the fact that a guy might be overweight, and they should give him a shot. Maybe they'd finally find that guy that puts them on the dais like they want to be placed.
I do say this knowing I've dated and been with larger women, when I say larger, I mean larger than me. They usually have personality issues that don't mesh with my current lifestyle or desired lifestyle at least, so I shouldn't be chastised for wanting someone who is in better shape because they have the habits I want to emulate.
I'm tired of men being told they are horribly shallow *kitten* because they want physically fit women, or women that are "classically" attractive. Women do that all the friggin time and it's completely acceptable. This double standard is asinine to me.
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh k
im oversensitive about this today cause someone told me yesterday that because im a big girl im more grateful for compliments cause I have to work harder for them. sounded similar to fat guys trying harder cause they appreciate being with someone more physically fit than they are.
I dont think its shallow to want someone with a specific body type or level of fitness and physical activity. Especially if they are doing the same and I make the cut
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Haha like I posted in a different thread -- I'm losing weight because I am attracted to thinner guys. I don't expect a more physically fit guy to be attracted to me, so I'm holding off on dating until I've reached goal (or at least a lot closer to it) and resolved my own self-confidence issues.0
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Haha like I posted in a different thread -- I'm losing weight because I am attracted to thinner guys. I don't expect a more physically fit guy to be attracted to me, so I'm holding off on dating until I've reached goal (or at least a lot closer to it) and resolved my own self-confidence issues.
This ^
And for me, it's not quite just the weight, but the confidence and self-esteem I really have to work on.0 -
I don't think being put on a pedestal is healthy though, in the way you're describing. That might mean my guy feels inferior to me which would manifest in other ways.
I'm shallow. I admit. I don't care. Yea, Italian stallion has been nothing but a sweetheart thus far but usually what drives me is their physical attractiveness. He's freaking hot!! And I feel awesome knowing I can snag a hot blue eyed Italian.0 -
I don't think being put on a pedestal is healthy though, in the way you're describing. That might mean my guy feels inferior to me which would manifest in other ways.
I'm shallow. I admit. I don't care. Yea, Italian stallion has been nothing but a sweetheart thus far but usually what drives me is their physical attractiveness. He's freaking hot!! And I feel awesome knowing I can snag a hot blue eyed Italian.
They say you should never trust a light eyed Italian!0 -
I don't think being put on a pedestal is healthy though, in the way you're describing. That might mean my guy feels inferior to me which would manifest in other ways.
I'm shallow. I admit. I don't care. Yea, Italian stallion has been nothing but a sweetheart thus far but usually what drives me is their physical attractiveness. He's freaking hot!! And I feel awesome knowing I can snag a hot blue eyed Italian.
They say you should never trust a light eyed Italian!
Don't burst my lust bubble!!!0 -
I don't think being put on a pedestal is healthy though, in the way you're describing. That might mean my guy feels inferior to me which would manifest in other ways.
I'm shallow. I admit. I don't care. Yea, Italian stallion has been nothing but a sweetheart thus far but usually what drives me is their physical attractiveness. He's freaking hot!! And I feel awesome knowing I can snag a hot blue eyed Italian.
They say you should never trust a light eyed Italian!
Don't burst my lust bubble!!!
Lust away girl........:drinker:0 -
... so go find a fat chick. She'll do the same for you and you can be insecure together.
Ya know, I have NEVER seen you post anything positive in response to anything. Why are you so bitter? Why do you have no sense of humor? Is life really that hard that you are that unhappy?
I'm not unhappy, just because I don't laugh when people try to hide behind low self esteem and use it as humor. I can recognize the signs and symptoms because I used to have to do the same thing when -I- had low self esteem.
I post a lot of positive things. If you've never seen it, it's not my fault you aren't paying attention.0 -
im oversensitive about this today cause someone told me yesterday that because im a big girl im more grateful for compliments cause I have to work harder for them.
That is just ridiculous!0
